myloveiselectric
New member
- Joined
- Sep 14, 2015
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- MBTI Type
- ENTP
- Enneagram
- 7?
I'm an ENTP who has been talking to an INTJ for a few months now. We met through Tinder, so at least there's that level of confidence regarding mutual attraction, but we have yet to meet in person. He was the first to bring up that it was odd we hadn't hung out yet, but it's been me who has had to make the effort in endeavoring to make plans. I definitely used to be an ENFP, but have slowly migrated towards the T side as I've grown older. Given those tendencies and my extroversion, I do have a need for communication that clearly isn't reciprocated by INTJs, which is something I struggle with. However, I mentioned to him once that I didn't want to message him too often because I felt like I was bugging me, and he reassured me that I never am. This made me much more confident, but his fluctuation in whether he responds at all, or, if he does, whether it's a long or short response, still makes me feel as though I'm being a bother. Essentially, what I'm trying to figure out is how I should exactly go about my pursuit without annoying him or being too distant. Also, would I be correct in thinking that it's a good sign one of his best friends is an ENTP as well?