i tend to only want peoples genuine feelings....like i wouldn't appreciate someone being nice or going along with me if they didn't want to....giving a gift you don't want to give feels useless to me.
Hmm.. What is his situation like? Is he really that desperate for money to screw family over?I have an ENFP cousin and I'm not sure if he's telling the truth to me or not and whether he's going to betray us and steal the company's money or not.
Are you ok with showing "Fake" emotions?
Hmm.. What is his situation like? Is he really that desperate for money to screw family over?
IDK.. bc I had an ENFP ex who sorta did something that I *thought* was majorly wrong. He was involved in a pyramid scheme, and I can tell from get go that it was shady business. We both didn't know at that time that it was a pyramid scheme. I had my suspicions though, but he didn't listen to me, got sucked in, and tried getting another person sucked in, one of which, the person was an immigrant who didn't have much money to start with.. What hurt me most about what he did was that he had the audacity to take advantage of this guy's hard earned money.. I felt that the way he approached it was kinda crafty. I saw him in a different light, realizing that shit- this guy really is that desperate for money, bc he doesn't have have parents to support him, and his bros/sisters were are brokeass as well.. I got him to give the money back to the guy and say sorry. It still surprises me though.
Anyway, I think often times, situational factors can cause a person to make poor choices that they normally wouldn't. I mean, who am I to judge him as being 'bad.' Often times, when people lack resources, they may do things that are totally unpredictable, and that would also depend on whether or not that person has role models or people they look up to for guidance or support.
Perhaps ask him what's up? Touchy topic.. Sorry to hear about that.
Emotion that is not truly what you feel. (e.g. a projected smile but hatred beneath)What the hell is a fake emotion?
Manipulate or for the sake of changing their opinions?
opinions - feelings ???
manipulate - affect???
Only if it will get me money.
Yes, I've made that relation.
But will you be comfortable doing it? Would the facade be easy to spot?
I see it like thisOk, I don't see that connection and I do see those as very different things.
I'm totally comfortable doing it as part of my job. Nope, won't be able to spot it. I'm a charmer. I'm a performer.
But real life is real life, and I don't drag that shit into my relationships or even into casual convos with strangers.
\I see it like this
Feelings but specifically opinions. Affect but specifically manipulate. Either way, the question asked is "affect - feelings".
Hm, this is difficult. Would it be comfortable for you to "fake" cry in front of a person? Would it be easy to notice that it isn't your true emotions?