Oh... well setting routines (even though we may rebel against our own settings, haha) can be helpful with the eating thing.
maybe you could try with getting one meal at a regular time during the day and go from there. For me it's more about getting into an effortless routine that noticing physical cues to being hungry.
I find cooking regular meals quite tedious, unless i am doing something like a dinner party which can be experimentally fun.
So anyway, back to the point... try with one regular meal with different food groups. I hope that helps.
This is right on point. I love cooking for my husband and I or for parties or guests, I just can't seem to take the time to prepare food for myself. I do much better with a schedule that's set for me. I've been off work for the summer since I work in a school, so that's been a big adjustment for me. I laughed out loud when I read your comment about rebelling against our own settings. UGH! I have a serious love/hate relationship with that aspect of myself.
Standuble: "I don't believe that Si is related to sensitivity or determining your well being (hunger etc.)"
I read that it is. ENFPs often ignore their body's needs because they get so caught up in other things. It's also the reason we tend to overlook details. The main things I'm really looking for is for me to be able to tune in to myself, like at the core of my being, instead of being blinded by a swirl of thoughts and emotions. I believe that's what I'm missing to really be at peace and not be in a reactionary or lost in thought state all the time. I want to feel present more.
pinkgrafitti: "OMG I'd rather shoot myself "
My thoughts exactly! haha, I'd go nuts.
"The internet is the worst, because it's a constant source of distraction....not only because it's so vast....but also because information keep getting updated (email, facebook, forum, news, etc) that you can just refresh every 2min and always find something new."
I've been thinking of trying to cut back in that area, but I haven't taken the plunge. You're right though. I know the immediacy of it is not doing me any favors.
"I read somewhere that we shouldn't struggle too much with our inferior function, or it will makes us feel miserable, because we spend too much energy to use it and end up not even using it correctly. Jung does not even mention a 4th function. So what I read is that you should really focus on developing your two best functions, Ne and Fi. I find that to be true. When my Fi is happy and content, I am an equilibrated person."
I find this interesting. Maybe I should give that some thought too.
Thanks for all the great responses! Keep them coming if you've got more to say.
Also, I know I suck at quoting and stuff. I'll figure it out later
I'm still pretty new here.