I'm a female INFJ and I have a major crush on a guy, who I believe to be an ENFP. Basically, I made my feelings known to him, but it was bad timing, so he was unable to tell me how he felt about me. Now some time has passed and it's probably better timing now. Still he hasn't revealed his feelings to me. I know that he has a lot of trouble expressing his feelings, which makes sense because of his auxillary function fi. He's a very sensitive person on the inside but doesn't feel comfortable showing it...kind of like he has to play the role of the "typical guy" and hide his emotions to keep his masculinity in tact. My question is, what needs to happen, or what can I do to allow him to feel comfortable expressing his feelings? ENFP males, can you help me out with this one? I suppose he would have to use Fe to do that...what is it like for an ENFP to use Fe?