My strengths can also be classified as weaknesses. It's actually pretty surprising given all of those have given me problems at one point or another. They've still made me a stronger individual and happier with who i am.
As for loving being an ENFJ... I think it's just an interesting package. By no means is it easy or do i think others should envy it, but it's a challenge to keep everything in order in the ENFJ-core, while being so intensely outwardly focused. The challenge makes me love every ounce of it.
+100%
There are good things, and things I hate at the same time. But here is what people have told me personally.
- Charismatic
- Easy to talk to, and love new perspectives.
- Patient understanding listener
- Insatiable curiosity to see the whole picture
- Unquenchable drive to achievement
- Perserverence, gets things done
- Appreciation for other viewpoints
(more an intrigue imo)
- Natural leader
(although personally I think i kinda suck, and this is a point I'm trying for personal growth)
- Positivity naturally radiates making those around feel good
(but I'm sure the opposite is true, and it can also become a mask I have to fight)
- Genuine depth and mystique. Can grasp deeper concepts and analogies.
- Talk in poetry and notice details.
- Boundless energy
(at times.. lol! I procrastinate.)
- Ability to connect and understand people on a deeper level that I don't know
- Non-judgemental and laid back towards others
(For the most part. I'm very hard on myself)
- Humble amid different accomplishments
(Imo, this is more attributable to the fact I am never really good enough for myself, and everyone else has good things too...)
Meh.
INTJ friends ftw.
Make you feel alll warm around them...