I can never understand what INFPs are actually like... I'll have to work on getting to know one well
most of us can't. because of so big mess around that type, yust like Antisocial One said somewhere ... stereotypical INFP is unhealthy one, so that messes image of the whole type. which is absurd...
but as any type, there are lot of differences within INFPs... i know few INFPs very well - I guess I always click with INFPs, INTPs etc.. and all of them are different very much. so you cant say how INFP really looks like.
one my friend, she is almost 34, yust tested today as INFP. I gave her link to test and said I think she will turn out to be INFP, and she was.. with high letters...
anyways, she is very healthy person, one of the most healthy I know. She is pretty famous in Croatia as psychologyst and columnist in few magazines and bla.. the point : she is nothing like stereotypical INFP how they describe them. And others INFP I know also.
we are a lot different. I'm yust more concentrated to outter world.. she has reach inner world .. i dont.. i'm more bubbly.
other INFP friend, she is 19, .. she is the most similar person to me I met. We are like twins. but only when we open up to each other and find out we have similar problems and preferences, but at first sight.. we cant be so similar. only 2 of us could see that i guess. the same with people your type, many times you yust cant find so big similarity because its not obivous, people expect that they are like "Others of their type"...but people are never how they seem so you cant look at it that way.