People tend to not like perfectly good people who make them feel insecure in some way
People tend to not like perfectly good people who make them feel insecure in some way- people who actually follow through whatever envy they feel are assholes and best avoided.
I think it is true.
The unpopular truth that kiersey and none of the other profilers will tell you is that most people highly resent NTs, either secretly or overtly. Not because of our intelligence or creativity or any of that bullshit, but because of how utterly DIFFERENT we are from societal norms. We don't pay honor to the "human pecking order", we shun the good graces expected of us/all, we dont cater to those weaklings who want their egos fed 24/7, "listen to me tell you about my cat/Ford Truck or you're a big jerk", all of that crap that we hate so much, leads them to hate us back because they dont get it. We are very independently minded individuals - and I think that's where we get the most hatred from. People see that and they think "wow, what an asshole to not need others OR to let us need him! he/she must be an egomaniac".
My entire life I have had random people (whom I've never interacted with much) come and tell me I'm an asshole or how nasty of a person I am. On account of getting along well with most people I never chalked it up to much. Honestly, I've never understood why this happens. I'm curious whether this might be a "MBTI type thing" or if anyone else has had this occur to them regularly who can share some insight.
Yesyesyes. OP, it's probably because an ENTJ is not superdy-duperdy sensitive to others' feelings. It doesn't automatically make you an asshole. NTs should all strive to be less insensitive, but it's not an entirely bad trait to have. The people who call you an asshole, are probably assholes.