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"Everything in its place"
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- Jun 28, 2009
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I've got a friend that I'm 98% sure is INFP (unhealthy in some aspects; uses language like, "I hate myself" and is constantly comparing herself to other people, wanting to be more like them- something I noticed my ENFP friend does also). She and my ENFJ buddy hooked up, but the ENFJ guy's a bit of a man-whore, so he ditched the INFP for other girls, and she still had feelings for him- even as they weren't dating.
So, this was... over a month ago; she's still angry. She saw another girl given the same treatment by the ENFJ, and she took empathy to a new level (slow down, Fi!) by taking some- what I find unjustified- actions.
And this is just one guy. She's ranted about exes and how they've mistreated here, while I (whether two months ago being very INFJ or now being very xNTP) let situations like that go and have even befriended those who've caused me harm.
What gives?
So, this was... over a month ago; she's still angry. She saw another girl given the same treatment by the ENFJ, and she took empathy to a new level (slow down, Fi!) by taking some- what I find unjustified- actions.
And this is just one guy. She's ranted about exes and how they've mistreated here, while I (whether two months ago being very INFJ or now being very xNTP) let situations like that go and have even befriended those who've caused me harm.
What gives?