Here is the typewatch description of a 2w3 and a 7w6. See which one you relate to more. It's hard to type you because you have both a 2w3 and a 7w6 fix. It's just that I'm not sure which one is your predominant type. Here are the descriptions...
I'll start addressing stuff then. Anything not taken out is something I'm cool with.
2w3
2w3s are more about "seeking to help and inspire".ctive.
Seeking to inspire and motivate people, yes. I'm not actively looking to help anyone, though.
They have more of an obvious need to be needed and are naturals at being the center of attention.
Hmm, less needed and more wanted. Or both, but needed purely because of their love for me. I don't want to be chosen by default - I want to be someone's first choice, like I said earlier. In regards to being the center of attention, I certainly liked being talked about and getting attention and such but I don't assert myself in that position. I'm more likely to go to the side of the room than the middle just because TRYING to catch everyone's attention is exhausting.
They are more likely to host and organize things that others are interested in. They're the twos more likely to be involved with more open and cooperative facilitating efforts like charities and non-profit organizations.
Nah, if I'm not interested in it you're not gonna hear a peep from me.
But I do support organizations fighting against animal cruelty like ASPCA, etc.
They take pride in being able to offer assistance where others want help.
That's another problem, I don't feel a sense of pride from helping others. I just love being able to see and make people happy.
The more extroverted ones tend to be cloying and tacky.
Nah, I don't believe in this over-the-top-ness either. If anything, I'm a fairly low-key friend. Not quiet and soft-spoken, but I'm not constantly shoving my friendship in people's faces. Loud, obnoxious people like that may actually bother me.
Due to their three wing they are both more results-oriented
Yes and no? Just today my dad asked me if I wanted to go out and when I realized I actually had to go through the effort of changing out of my pajamas I just kept asking what the point was if we weren't going to get anything while we were out. But then at the same time I'm not nearly as goal-oriented as most 3s when all I'm aiming for is a good, happy life with a family of my own. For that, though, I'm constantly trying to find the right guy out there.
They are more ambitious and competitive.
Only ambitious when I'm passionate about something, and only competitive when someone is trying to show off or act like the shit.
They are also smoother and more pragmatic as well as more expansive and effusive.
I'm not very pragmatic and sometimes I can be more jittery than smooth but the rest is pretty true. But pragmatic is a no-no.
They are less self-referential and more likely to see interdependence as acceptable...even desireable.
The problem with 2w3 is that it's so much more common among Fe-doms. I'm very self-referential, in fact I relate almost everything back to myself. The second sentence though reminds me of how much of a paradox I am in relation to this. I value my independence and I dislike being held down by anything or anyone, but at the same time I'll also constantly feel incomplete without someone to love and someone who loves me back.
2w3s pride themselves in being "just what the doctor ordered" for that person or situation. They take pride in being naturals at helping others.
Less prideful and more confident? I don't know. I'm happy to help people and feel good when I do, but I don't let it get to my head.
If they go out of their way for someone and don't get appreciated they can become manipulative and bossy.
I'm rarely manipulative or bossy. In fact I suck at being both lol. I just get upset or depressed if this happens, or start wondering "what's wrong with me?"
When unhealthy their style of controlling others tends to be more domineering and smothering compared to their more restrained one-wing siblings.
Also I rarely try to control others.
7w6
I'm usually more elevated than irritable. When I'm irritable it's from my lack of desire to be around people or other people being way too social.
They are mercurial and endearing.
I'm not sure if my mood changes so much to be called mercurial. I'm generally a pretty happy and upbeat person. When my moods get down (which is usually just a few times a week) they spring back fairly quickly.
They are more likely to chase their own tail.
I'm not sure what this part means.
They care about how they are seen.
Not really, other than being seen as someone who should be treated kindly.
They have a good-natured sense of humor and are more natural entertainers. They tend to be funny more than they are characters.
The problem here is while I try to be funny, we have to get to know each other because most of my actual funny jokes are inside jokes. I can't just crack jokes around people I barely just met because then my humor will have no depth to it. So basically I need a lot of buildup for entertaining people. I laugh at almost anything though.