Elfboy
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
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- 5w4
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- sx/sp
By your logic, I'm a 7.
tbh, it wouldn't blow me away (I've seen you as a potential 6w7/7w6 for awhile actually)
By your logic, I'm a 7.
Ohh, [MENTION=19503]Comeback Girl[/MENTION], your help as an ExFP 2w3 is needed. Tell me how you experience emotion and such? And what Fi is like being a 2? And how much you relate to your wing type?
It's as if both experiences are present simultaneously. Both depth of feeling and the intelctualizing of it all.
Surely the op is a 7-2-9. He gives lx's vibe; but definitely more open, friendly and uninhibited. That probably suggests so dom? It's people like the op and the rest of enfp 7s on typc who make me think twice about being a 7. I guess sp doms aren't that bubblishly-energetic; though charismatic when needed. Yes I just suggested I am charismatic.
I think my Fi/type 2 connection shows in how I react to emotions of people around me. If someone I care about is feeling bad or going through a rough time, I instantly feel terrible too. When it comes to things I go through myself I'm fairly positive, so nine out of ten times when I'm feeling bad, it's because someone else is feeling bad. But when we keep this out of mind, I don't experience heavy emotions, except for boredom.
I relate to type threes too. I'm extremely vain (I have to, I wasn't blessed with good looks by mother nature), I love performing, I love getting attention, I love being the best at something, I love entertaining people. But I also don't need to be the best at everything. Maybe it sounds very shallow and very stereotypically ESFP what I'm going to say right now, but I'd rather be the best looking and most exciting person on campus, than the person with the best academic achievements. But I don't think that's a bad thing either, because eventually you'll achieve more in life if you know how to sell yourself, than with the grades you got.
All kinds of people experience all kinds of emotions. To be angry at someone does not make you an angry person. Types are about patterns, tendencies, about the long run. Types, above all, are descriptions, not explanations. They may hint a the truth, but the truth is not written in concepts.
However, your current typing seems right to me.
The SO Seven represents a purer character who expresses a kind of counter-gluttony, in that the SO Seven focuses on not exploiting others and helping and supporting the group. SO Sevens postpone the fulfillment of their own desires for an ideal of supporting others, and they want to be seen as good for their sacrifice. A generalized tendency of this type is to adopt the role of helper and to be concerned with the alleviation of pain. (This is the Seven countertype.)
[MENTION=4945]EJCC[/MENTION] [MENTION=10082]Starry[/MENTION] [MENTION=5418]Lady X[/MENTION] [MENTION=15607]The Great One[/MENTION] [MENTION=6164]Riva[/MENTION] [MENTION=7254]Wind-Up Rex[/MENTION] [MENTION=10496]skylights[/MENTION] [MENTION=18664]Stansmith[/MENTION] [MENTION=18819]nicolita[/MENTION] [MENTION=15963]Devi[/MENTION] [MENTION=6109]Halla74[/MENTION] [MENTION=14676]Ism[/MENTION] [MENTION=10757]Nicodemus[/MENTION] etc, your thoughts would be appreciated very much.SO Twos seduce groups from a position of power. Social Twos seduce people by being smart and competent. The Social Two is the “power Two,†and is often the owner of the company or the person in charge. This is a more adult Two than the SP Two and can resemble a type Three or a Type Eight.
ENFP (you could be a very Ne heavy ESFJ but Pi is probably your inferior function)
You're definitely so/sx and you don't seem very social 2 at all. Social 7 is much more fitting.
7w6-2w3-9w1 IMO
[MENTION=17131]Chanaynay[/MENTION]
7 positive outlook: avoiding the negative, rationalization, delayed response to negative emotions
2 positive outlook: putting out positive emotion and energy with the intention of affecting the mood of the room/atmosphere/interaction
yes, several times.Have you ever seen him other than happy for that matter? Even when he's bitching about guys I almost never see him getting all worked up about it; it's more of a careless abandon.
yes, several times.
Care to share?
As far as I am concerned, the case of your type(s) is closed. But if you like, we can talk about your sense of fashion now.[...] your thoughts would be appreciated very much.
Functionally, I'd rate myself Ne≥Fi>Fe≥Te>Si>Ni>Se≥Ti - it's like an ENFJ just decided to merge with my ENFP-ness.
Dunno, I love ESFJs but I'm definitely not as hardworking as they usually are. Maybe not hardworking is the best way to phrase it, maybe it's more of a lack of willpower? I get overwhelmed very easily by like one or two assignments. If I don't have an interest in doing it I'm not going to do it until I absolutely have to even if it'd be more convenient for me to do it earlier than that. Regarding groups, I usually just laugh and going on with whatever's happening. If it's not something I agree with or feel like doing, I'll just simply disconnect myself from the group and go do something by myself at home (which is usually just playing video games/watching TV/going on the internet). Also the only time my Si comes out is when nostalgia appeals to it or movies pull out the whole "emotional slideshow of events you've just seen in the past 30 minutes to emphasize the significance of their relationship" sorta thing. You may or may not understand what I'm talking about; at this point I'm just rambling on. Oh and I barely feel connected to Ti at all. At least with Si I can see it in myself. Fe somewhere slips in there but could be more due to being a 2-fixer and so/sx.