Blackout
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I was just wondering what the general or overall opinions on same...s..types are like?
I was mostly just asking because it's not all that commonly talked about and I think almost everyone expects or only talks about the compatibility of two different types altogether, but never the same ones. Obviously since SJ's are considered to be the most commonly prevalent types, it would seem to me the that perhaps there are many of the same SJ types together, but then never for any others? I get this feeling that maybe to a lot of people it's though of as this 'gross' and 'icky' area that not many like to touch on or even think about, but I've noticed lately that I actually like INFP women and find that I quite enjoy their company. It was sort of unexpected for me since we are the same type, but I find some of them attractive. I feel sometimes like the dynamic between genders are enough to really warrant differences.
Anyway, I mostly have read that it's not advisable, or left kind of vague and neutral; but I remember one article that stood out to me about how it could actually be a very fulfilling and satisfying relationships because the two INFPs would generally find what they want most in their respective partners. I guess I just like that feeling or sense of their being no jagged conflict or adversity and having a deep understanding of one another....(but of course, not being completely the same, no one is)
Isn't that sometimes how it goes?
I was mostly just asking because it's not all that commonly talked about and I think almost everyone expects or only talks about the compatibility of two different types altogether, but never the same ones. Obviously since SJ's are considered to be the most commonly prevalent types, it would seem to me the that perhaps there are many of the same SJ types together, but then never for any others? I get this feeling that maybe to a lot of people it's though of as this 'gross' and 'icky' area that not many like to touch on or even think about, but I've noticed lately that I actually like INFP women and find that I quite enjoy their company. It was sort of unexpected for me since we are the same type, but I find some of them attractive. I feel sometimes like the dynamic between genders are enough to really warrant differences.
Anyway, I mostly have read that it's not advisable, or left kind of vague and neutral; but I remember one article that stood out to me about how it could actually be a very fulfilling and satisfying relationships because the two INFPs would generally find what they want most in their respective partners. I guess I just like that feeling or sense of their being no jagged conflict or adversity and having a deep understanding of one another....(but of course, not being completely the same, no one is)
Isn't that sometimes how it goes?