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No. :steam: He hasn't responded to my email, and he keeps calling my home number like nothing happened. I'm not answering it, though.
He's the first ENTJ I've ever dated, but I imagine most ENTJs would take a breakup by responding like this: "Fair enough. In that case, I wish you the best." Mature and direct.
Perhaps I'll call HIM, and if he answers (most likely), I'll tell him in a girly voice to hang up, because I want to leave a sexy surprise on his voicemail. Then I'll read aloud the email I sent to him on his voicemail. Good idea?
Breaking up by email is neither mature nor direct. I read your post in another thread about how he has proposed to you twice amongst other things (not sure if you posted that here already).
Someone who has invested that much emotional expenditure in you and imagined a life together is not going to accept an email buh-bye. It's extremely unrealistic to think anybody - especially someone who's already shown possessiveness and jealousy and with whom you've shown inconsistency - would take that at face value and move on without trying to find out from the source (you) what's going on.
He's not calling you like "nothing happened" he's calling you because he wants to know exactly what happened and he feels he deserves an answer from you directly - in person or over the phone.