Alessa Gillesppie
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Maybe we need a poll to see how many other people have been stalked by INTJs.
Ahaha. Absolutely.
Maybe we need a poll to see how many other people have been stalked by INTJs.
I will usually question my views quite thoroughly before final implementation of a plan or idea. This is a last sanity check to be sure the plan is sound and is not overlooking new information or developments. If implementation happens in stages or over time, I will do this more than once, to accommodate any changes in the situation.How often do you question your views?
Do you challenge all of them?
Me.. i do it to check if im going in the right direction.
Might just be a Enneagram type 6 thing?
I observed to an INTJ whom I've known personally for years, "You're opportunistic about logic. You use logic here as it suits your needs, and you use illogic there as it suits your needs."
His reply: "That's not illogic, that's IN-logic."
Any comments from the INTJ side?
Edit - "IN" does not stand for anything, it's just the word "in."
I think that INTJ's are not cold-hearted meanies,
but just very uncomfortable with emotions ; perhaps more " vulnerable " than they let on
what say yee ?
What do you INTJ's do significantly better than a lot of the INTP's you've known?
Get to the point.What do you INTJ's do significantly better than a lot of the INTP's you've known?
Get to the point.
I observed to an INTJ whom I've known personally for years, "You're opportunistic about logic. You use logic here as it suits your needs, and you use illogic there as it suits your needs."
His reply: "That's not illogic, that's IN-logic."
Any comments from the INTJ side?
Edit - "IN" does not stand for anything, it's just the word "in."
Well, INTJs are a primarily irrational type. Ni is kind of crazy and just does things it's way, regardless of the correctness of it. We aren't thinking dominant. This is less of an issue with more mature INTJs, who have better access to Te.
Usually there's a reason for believing what we believe, but trying to communicate that to others (especially ITPs) can be very difficult.
II'm just going to start getting crazy, buck-wild Ne with all the INTJ's I work with. I'm going to disregard the structured Te facade and just target Ni with my Ne musings. What's the worst that can happen, right? I'll either strike out (back to square 1 - no Ne), or I'll hit it over the fence and we'll have an N-fest.
does the idea of Domination, submission turn you on or do anything for you?
what are things in the work place that really piss you off?
does the idea of Domination, submission turn you on or do anything for you?
Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who will allow you complete control of the relationship (or almost complete), take complete control for themselves (or almost complete), or someone who will stand their ground and treat you like an equal, expecting the same in return?
I ask because an INTJ very close friend of mine (and ex-girlfriend) was in an on-and-off relationship with this very submissive guy for like 6 years but would often complain that he couldn't stand up for himself, but when the two of us dated (during one of the off parts of the long relationship), I did not submit or control but the relationship went nowhere and she ended it after about a month. Granted, I may have mocked her religion while we were discussing something, not thinking she would take it personally.
She seems to like being the boss but also likes to complain about other people not being independent or standing up for themselves.