[MENTION=20531]yeghor[/MENTION]
Thank you for asking for my opinion. Yes I relate to being over informative or full of details, shooting other people down, always raising my hand in class, my mother calls me a walking encyclopedia, I think I may have what borders on a photographic memory (I think this may be related to Se, not memory but the physical detail in which I remember), and yes sadly to say I have shouted people down. I once almost got into a fight with my ESFP mother because she tried to show me a better way to poach an egg, unasked.
I don't relate necessarily though to telling people they are weird, what annoys me is too much speculation or valuation that doesn't relate back to real life. I hate abstract maths, and tend to want to evaluate things based on direct impact to real people.
I have noticed more Fe doms and aux, especially Si Fe and Fe Si shaming people for being weird. In fact many "strange" artists and performers are actually SFP, not N.
I had an INTJ react very badly to me once, I think he thought I was aggressive and I found him passive aggressive or evasive. I am pretty sure years later it was merely a misunderstanding.
I only type as SEE in Socionics. I type as an ambiverted ISFP otherwise, I am actually somewhat reserved irl, like a bookish version of my ESFP mother.
I see that you think ESFP is narcissistic and I have had people on this website call me narcissistic, but I am actually histrionic, I don't lack empathy and have never been diagnosed as a narcissist by any of my therapists. I am just a performer. In Socionics though SEE is Napoleon.
I remember in high school one of my friends joked that I was Porn Star Serial Killer...back in the 90s there was a line of clothing called Porn Star and there was a Serial Killer shirt with a photo of Jack Nicholson from the Shining. ...I have always liked horror movies, unlike some women I don't like porn with a plot and prefer close ups of penetration, and I overall have rough edges to me, when I was middle school age I had short hair and rode bikes with boys. But I would never hurt people intentionally, I cry easily and can't stand animal violence.
Se people are not mean or cruel or insensitive, we just kind of ...I don't know..need things to be as they are.
I am actually very sensitive to my surroundings and I don't know that everyone you describe here is ESFP.