I feel hopeless not because I am an INFP, but maybe because I am unattractive. I feel no matter how we pretend that looks do not matter, it does, to an extent, it does. I guess the INFP part of me really finds it difficult to relate and connect with someone. I'm kind of the Forever Alone type. Never had people attracted to me, and I've never even been on a date. I feel as if I am still waiting for high school, and yet I am already in my 30s. I feel so inept. I think I am also what one would call demisexual, since I have this tendency to fall for a best friend, or the closest guy friend I have. Yet these people who know me inside out, still don't quite 'see' me. So yes, I am hopeless..