I do not do things because I want credit, I do not things because I want to say " lookit me I AM the bigger person!" I do it because I hate wasted time and I hate bullshit. I especially hate time wasted by bullshit. So I'd prefer to just get shit done. Don't care how others percieve this, don't care that the " entitled and incompitent" ( which yah they are) get another free ride. I just caring about doing what needs to be done.
You're one of those people who is obssesed with being " different" you found out you're not ( based on some number system? Who gives a shit?) so now you can't accept that anyone else might be. TBH, if you have to force yourself to be part of the " 1%" you never really were.
I don't see what's so great about it personally. I think it would be wonderful to be to be generally accepted by people. Just to be able to relate to another human being would be a fucking dream.
So, I understand how you feel, but you're barking up the wrong tree here. I've put up with enough judgement and hatred over the years to earn the right to say that I am a little different. If you take offense to that well, that is your issue and it wont be made mine.
Who said anything about " right?" We're talking about people, how and why they do. I think it's pretty messed up to tell someone that they are wrong on thier own motivations.
If they're meek it doesn't mean they're bad at decision making at all. Sometimes people lack the confidence in their own abilities to step up, rather allowing for someone potentially less-qualified but more charismatic and louder to step in. And many times in my life, I have come across situations where my speaking up and using my loud talent to broadcast someone else's genius has come to much better results than if I had not paid attention to everyone around me and just took charge all the time.
My point is to say... is it REALLY truly that EVERYONE around you in these situations is incapable? I mean, all the time? Every one? .. I doubt it. More likely you do want to take charge and take power when you see an opportunity, even if at times you don't want the added responsibility. So you blame the "incapable" people (aka the people who truly do not want the leadership role) of your added burden, dismissing it all with a justified resignation "fiiiine Ill do it" when all along you knew you were going to position yourself right there.. somewhere in you you did... Because.. in reality you could have pushed anyone else to step up to the plate by being quiet yourself and recognizing that this leadership role might not be a good fit for you right now.. But they'll always feel like a good fit.. because type 8s see themselves as leaders.
.. On the flip side. Maybe you're begrudgingly leading because you're not 8 at all. If you are 100% genuine about disliking leadership roles, I'd be more inclined to think a different type for you. But I'm going on the assumption that you're an 8 since you say you are.
I never said " fiiiine " I said "Fine." It is a difinitve. If I truly did not want to do something I wont. It is not something I jump to at every oppertunity, which is often the implication of 8's: they insist on leading all the time because they are bossy."
I think I know the type of people I deal with a little better than you. They are not incompitent or incapable.They are certainly not meek. They are entitled, lazy, anti-social, indecisive, and spiteful. If they do decide to lead it's only for the percieved power- the a bsolute last people you would want to lead.