Well since everyone is taking one stance, I will go ahead and take the opposite.
Damn Girl! You a fatty!
Are you serious?! Your TOTALLY not fat, not even CLOSE to it. One of two things is going on here.. and neither are good.
1) you are one of those twiggy girls that says things like "am i fat" fully knowing there not but hoping to receive lots of super overdone validation and compliments.. orrrr
2) your parents are not just a bit overcritical, but flat out delusional. In which case, I would readily go to the doctor to put them in check.. and also let them know that such comments are very hurtful to your self image and that they should already be aware of this.
Well since everyone is taking one stance, I will go ahead and take the opposite.
Damn Girl! You a fatty!
This hints that she didn't really mean the following statement:
Why did she say it? Because... she's THAT girl!
*rimshot*
Pretty soon the whole board - ThatGirl will be backing up your beauty.
Being careful with your diet and getting more exercise are a good idea for almost everyone, so I wouldn't want to discourage you from either one. But to suggest that you're clinically obese or at serious medical risk because of your weight is absurd. The behaviour you've described from your parents is frightening, and I mean that very seriously. Obviously I've only heard your side, but what you've described is not healthy, and it is troubling.I think your parents need to see a doctor more than you do.
I know, I just think it must be something with my hormones, maybe my estrogen level got higher, it probably did (my life turned less stressfull lately and I thought that when you're stressed your body makes more testosterone or something). Anyways, I think my parents still compare me to the way I looked at age 14.