Jack_Rabid
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- May 14, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ISFP
I am New here!! I am in a, or was in very intense relationship with an INFP
As predicted, things have kinda taken a turn for the "less than stellar".. I know a lot of it has to do with not being emotionally aware enough..
But my issue was/is... My INFP just can't seem to handle that she is not pure in every way.. what I mean is.. she really has trouble with her flaw being pointed out..(which is a touch of hypocrisy.. "I can break my rules.. you can't") .. And even on those rare occasions when I could articulate myself and seemed to find the key to communicating and show her how it hurt me, and see her express remorse.. She would almost immediately start to take it back..and before long I was saying sorry for something too..
Is this common for INFPs in general.. or was it simply a poor dynamic of our personality types???
Do you guys and gals have trouble knowing you have the odd less than desirable trait??
Please help me understand..what I am so obviously not getting
I do not enjoy hurting her.. and cannot always carry the burden of having done so..
As predicted, things have kinda taken a turn for the "less than stellar".. I know a lot of it has to do with not being emotionally aware enough..
But my issue was/is... My INFP just can't seem to handle that she is not pure in every way.. what I mean is.. she really has trouble with her flaw being pointed out..(which is a touch of hypocrisy.. "I can break my rules.. you can't") .. And even on those rare occasions when I could articulate myself and seemed to find the key to communicating and show her how it hurt me, and see her express remorse.. She would almost immediately start to take it back..and before long I was saying sorry for something too..
Is this common for INFPs in general.. or was it simply a poor dynamic of our personality types???
Do you guys and gals have trouble knowing you have the odd less than desirable trait??
Please help me understand..what I am so obviously not getting
I do not enjoy hurting her.. and cannot always carry the burden of having done so..
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