Makes sense, but I don't think it's type-related due to the fact that they are spoiled.
I don't think one type would necessarily be more likely to resist than others function wise. If it was for one particular reason then yes but something can be resisted for a myriad of reasons. Would be more on an individual basis. I imagine each doing the following though I may be wrong (they shouldn't have a developed auxilary to really broaden their thought process.)
Fi-dom kids: Not personally valuing or seeing the subjective value in a demanded course of action.
Ti-dom kids: What they have been asked to do doesn't fit with their logical understanding of things.
Ne-dom kids: Not happy with having to agree with what their parents think when other possibilities exist.
Se-dom kids: Not happy with doing what they're told when there's something more interesting to do elsewhere.
Ni-dom kids: Not happy with a level of involvement sensory-data they may have to employ for a given task / do not believe this should be happening.
Si-dom kids: Not happy with a perceived change from the routine of what they believe normally happens.
Fe-dom kids: Not happy if feels the instruction has made others unhappy.
Te-dom kids: Not happy if believes the instruction isn't creating the best results.
P.S. the above are all my impressions of each young type. Apologies if they are caricatures.
Fi: Subjective value as in value for the one who asks?
Ti: Interesting.
Ne: There's always other possibilities...
Se: Sounds like the spoiled kind.
Ni: That sounds... Mystical. "This should not be happening!" kind of thing. I find this rather stupid, because it is the opposite of reality.
Si: Interesting.
Fe: Instructions usually are there to make others happy. Either way, someone will be unhappy - either the instructor or someone else, if the instruction won't be completed.
Te: I don't think kids can grasp the concept of "best results" very well, especially when they don't know anything about the subject...
Whenever my parents told me to do anything, I demanded an explanation why and if it didn't make sense, I resisted. I think ESTPs and ENTPs would be the types who resisted the most as children though.
No. When I became three I told my parents what to do Baby Cat's are deadly
You are my idol. They have evil claws of doom.
I've had an estp friend in my youth; veeeery charming guy, one of those guys who knows every person in a 500 k people town. Very businessmanlike and professional. he charmed his Dad in no time but his Mom was the devil. he never managed to charm her and she drove him to that point when he actually started to argue with her and lost his mask.
So you are absolutely right, extp kids and adults are the most independant and the least likely to bend to rules. I just want to add that this doesnt necessarily means trouble, just another way of dealing with the kids. Best way here is always to give them something and then collect your fee. If you treat extp kids like a businessman you shouldnt have problems
Haha I have an ESTP friend now who's such a freaking charmer. Every time he meets someone, they end up adoring him in seconds. I see, what type was his mom?
Definitely and that's why I love them. That makes sense. How do you handle Se-dom kids in general?
I didnt know his Mom enough to type her. Just seen her once, other than that he warded contact between her and his friends off pretty well. He just told me about the things she forbid again a lot. his Moms desire to control him wasnt totally without reason. He had one or two police problems at home and then of course his Mom freaked out. Its difficult to say tho what type she was.
I have had, in the course of my life, little to no direct contact to Se/Ni people or Ni/Se people. I have founded a webdesign company with an INTJ which we ran for 10 years and made some money and became a good friend for the estp for some time. But the relationship with Se's was always businesslike. On a level where we gave each other something professionally, not heartly. the INTJ was a skilled programmer but design and achieving contracts wasnt his thing. So I brought in the contracts and programmed the flash animations, while he did the whole html and php. I am a skilled programmer as well but I could never kept his pace. He wrote code over night for which I had needed a month. And I did the tax as well :/. The estp had a billion friends but noone he could trust. So for a time I became someone to him, he could tell everything. And he used my abilities to be a listener a lot. Tho I am actually a bad listener but things seem to change when two very verbally extroverted people clash in that regards.
So both very formal very businesslike relationships. More than that I rarely get with Ni/Se folks. Especially not with Te/Fi people. of them all I can talk best with ENTJs but they are a mystery book to me always. The moment I deviate from speaking very clearly and start to speak in metaphors like I like to do, I loose all Se or Te folks in the conversation. In that moments you can really see the difference of functions. So be glad I have drunken wine today, otherwise I wouldnt speak so clearly
My family is polite and my mother was always good about explaining why she wanted me to do things. I was generally passive and compliant unless someone I didn't respect tried to pull rank on me and bossed me around rudely instead of asking politely. I tend to lose all sense of self-preservation when that kind of thing happens and will fight it for all I'm worth.
That said, I did not always do what I was told. I am lazy and forgetful. However, if I was told *not* to do something, I DID NOT DO IT. Even if I disagreed with the prohibition. Even if I thought it was stupid. If the person had a legitimate right (in my mind) to tell me not to do something, I obeyed.
My husband is an INTP and is pretty similar. My four kids, IXTJ, XFXP, XXTJ, and IXTX seem to be the same way. Or else they are really sneaky. I'm not ruling that out.
What sort of people would what be?What sort of people would that be?
Sort of like training smart, stubborn, somewhat dominant dogs, except you can have entire conversations with them. You have to win their respect and not let them get by with too much until they recognize that you are the leader and then you have to try not to be stupid and lose the respect while they are still your legal responsibility. Gee I'm such a peach of a mom, lol.How's it like raising xxTJ children?
Would those be P or J type kids who resist the most to what their parents/etc. tell them? I'm not entirely sure if the resistance is related to lack of showed proof or not... But I think in case the proof doesn't matter it would be Fi types, and if proof does matter, then it would be Te types (maybe Ti too?).
By resist I mean "clean your teeth!" and the kid refuses to do so. "Take a bath!" the kid goes as far as screaming when being taken to the bath (maybe dislikes the bath ). Just two pretty rough examples to illustrate the point, however don't take them as the "this and not something else," those are just examples to illustrate the abstract idea.