I'm the sole NF in my immediate family. Now, at least. (My brother [2yrs older than I - died in '03] was ENFP. We fought [as siblings do], but overall, we *got* one another; he was my best friend growing up.)
My dad [died in '94] was an ENTJ, I believe - based on my personal experiences as well as reviewing home movies/reading old letters to my mom, etc. Clever, good-natured guy. Dry humor FTW.
Presently, my 'immediate family' consists of:
*My mom - an ISFJ - most likely w/bpd (what a cocktail, folks, let me tellya...) Good intentions. Skewed perception of reality/self. Martyr complex. Passive aggressive & just plain explosive at times.
*Stepfather - an ISTP - has daddy/rejection issues. Mechanic. Conflict-avoidant, but can be passive aggressive. Tries very hard to keep things upbeat.
*Stepbrother - 17yr old ESFP - [sweet/good kid; attached to his xBox, wants to be a plumber - he's only around every other weekend]
My INTP cat, Jack.
My extended family isn't close-knit.. I wish I were closer to my dad's family, but they're scattered about. He had 5 siblings. Couple of 'em I believe are NTs/NFs. As I said, I don't see em except maybe once a yr, if that.
My mom's family is a pack of unhealthy SJs/SPs. REALLY unhealthy.
I often feel like I'm the only one who sees the forest for the trees. It can be a bit maddening.
Some ENTP needs to invent some N-Goggles for families like mine. :rolli: