cacaia
New member
- Joined
- May 27, 2018
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- MBTI Type
- NF
- Enneagram
- 954
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
I work at a school and my office is open to the classroom. People often come in and want to talk. I am really happy when they ask for advice, etc etc, but sometimes I.Just.Want.To.Be.Alone!
People usually, as on cue, will come in more often on these days and I will have to force a smile and grin and bear it. Sometimes I'm in the middle of writing an email or reading an interesting article.
Externally, I always act kind. Internally I'm screaming- please leave me alone! And then my internal self feels guilty, because people come in to share happiness and / or problems they trust me with, and I feel so honored about that....
Is this also a struggle for you? Do you feel equally happy people seek you out and also pretty damn annoyed you don't get time to reflect?
People usually, as on cue, will come in more often on these days and I will have to force a smile and grin and bear it. Sometimes I'm in the middle of writing an email or reading an interesting article.
Externally, I always act kind. Internally I'm screaming- please leave me alone! And then my internal self feels guilty, because people come in to share happiness and / or problems they trust me with, and I feel so honored about that....
Is this also a struggle for you? Do you feel equally happy people seek you out and also pretty damn annoyed you don't get time to reflect?