I am a highly sensitive INTJ who has recently got through a lot of self-reflection. Shortly put, it has been about learning to understand myself better as in what being an INTJ and an HSP means in my case and how it has affected my life.
That process is already over, but I have realized that I am lacking certain kind of people in my life. It's actually quite difficult to name any specific reference group for me or the company that I am looking for, but a person I would like to get to know is probably in his or her 30's, an NF and has lived a kind of life that requires quite a lot of independence. With that I could mean someone who has travelled alone a lot, for example. That's something I have done myself too.
The biggest challenge is not about finding such people. The biggest challenge is that I am interested in one-on-one company of the kind of people who probably already have more than enough of close friends. The fact that I am an INTJ and thus not really an expert in building new friendships is definitely not helping me.
Do you, the users of this forum, have any wisdom that you could share and that might be useful in my situation?
That process is already over, but I have realized that I am lacking certain kind of people in my life. It's actually quite difficult to name any specific reference group for me or the company that I am looking for, but a person I would like to get to know is probably in his or her 30's, an NF and has lived a kind of life that requires quite a lot of independence. With that I could mean someone who has travelled alone a lot, for example. That's something I have done myself too.
The biggest challenge is not about finding such people. The biggest challenge is that I am interested in one-on-one company of the kind of people who probably already have more than enough of close friends. The fact that I am an INTJ and thus not really an expert in building new friendships is definitely not helping me.
Do you, the users of this forum, have any wisdom that you could share and that might be useful in my situation?