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IMO, I think you should just leave him. This is a lot of baggage that he has, and he shows no signs of changing in a short period of time. I might be ENFJ, but I'd feel just as frustrated as you, if nor more so. Honestly, I doubt he ever will change or grow a spine if he is the age he is and is still like this. It would take YEARS of hard work and he would have to want to change, and I don't think he does. If you stay with him I suspect you're just going to get more resentful over time, and I don't think he'll be able to give you what you'd want or need in the long term.
To be in a relationship with someone is to take on their baggage as well. You need to ask yourself if you're ok with taking on his. It doesn't sound like you're willing to. The best thing to do would be to go separate ways on good terms.
To be in a relationship with someone is to take on their baggage as well. You need to ask yourself if you're ok with taking on his. It doesn't sound like you're willing to. The best thing to do would be to go separate ways on good terms.