sleuthiness
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- Joined
- Jul 3, 2008
- Messages
- 1,858
- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 54
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
I enjoy em. Chat film with an so/sp e54 entp.
The problem is always that what may appear to you as an offhand-comment, when it was made about me, I try to understand it and weave it into a big net of interpretation. It's a major flaw of this whole Ne apparatus, it never stops, there just no point in space and time the faculty to overinterprete would leave me alone. I am quite sure that I'll end up in the asylum before I become 50.
The other side of the coin is tho, while entps may be increasingly sensitive to any offhand-comment, they are seldom sensitive to their own-offhand comments. Imo that defuses the whole thing a bit and shows that by the end of the day we are all human with similiar issues
P.S.: Throwing coke cans into nature is deeply non-NF
I've not noticed this IME. The ENTPs I know are pretty quietly spoken until you wind them up/get them drunk.They. Have. No. Indoor. Voices.
Yes, I've noticed that ENTP sensitivity, particularly to criticism. Its rather heart-breaking to see them wilt after an insult - all that resilient, carefree facade just disappears.The problem is always that what may appear to you as an offhand-comment, when it was made about me, I try to understand it and weave it into a big net of interpretation. It's a major flaw of this whole Ne apparatus, it never stops, there just no point in space and time the faculty to overinterprete would leave me alone. I am quite sure that I'll end up in the asylum before I become 50.
The other side of the coin is tho, while entps may be increasingly sensitive to any offhand-comment, they are seldom sensitive to their own-offhand comments. Imo that defuses the whole thing a bit and shows that by the end of the day we are all human with similiar issues
P.S.: Throwing coke cans into nature is deeply non-NF
Actually that's the one thing that I do disagree with.
i'm not loud either.
Haha, well the event that happened that made me think of that is this:
I was over at a friends house and there was a small group of us watching movies. I have three friends who are brothers who are all ENTPs. Another friend who is an INTJ was drinking a bit too much and suddenly goes, "hey! *points at the ENTPs* your last name sounds like hymen!! hahahaah* The 3 ENTPs all started laughing, and the rest of us laughed as well. Then you could literally watch them get sad faced about it... slowly they stopped laughing, and got kinda frowny face/emo... The INTJ started making "I have broken you" jokes, and the ENTPs didn't laugh at all and started getting pouty and sullen. When normally they are pretty easygoing and joking about everything.
Hmmm, not sure what an Fe-paranoid loop is or what that looks like. I'm guessing you're talking about when an ENTP cares about you enough to assess your mental state and tries to get you to talk to them? or maybe it's a goofy manifestation of ENTP boredom. Anyway, attention and affection is good, no?If they get into a paranoid/Fe loop, they can drive you insane with their need for lots of attention and affection.
You could throw a year's worth of empties into nature and I wouldn't even blink. I'm selfish and immature though.
Hmmm, not sure what an Fe-paranoid loop is or what that looks like. I'm guessing you're talking about when an ENTP cares about you enough to assess your mental state and tries to get you to talk to them? or maybe it's a goofy manifestation of ENTP boredom. Anyway, attention and affection is good, no?
that will change with age