To put it this way.. im avoiding my chief of staff at work(something like that) Shes a good looking ENFP in her 40s+ I avoid her just because she touches me for no apparent reason when i meet her at the end of the month to renew my contract. And she just must! say hi when i walk by in the cantina. Doesn`t matter if im looking in the ground or are not looking towards her. I have no problem nodding or talking to people i just want her to ignore me when im not looking at her..
Im bizzi! contract is signed lets get back to work. I don`t know you and this situation is artificial and i don`t like it.
If its artificial and i still do it is because i wish for something to happen.
I score alot of S on S/N.
Just talk to him as much as you can. At least always say hi when you get the chance.
how old are you?
I can only give you what my experiences were with one ISTJ. Everyone else noticed first that there was some chemistry going on and started to tease us. So if you have acquaintances or friends in common, you might want to solicit their opinions.
I royally suck at eye contact during conversations....unless it's with someone I like. I remember this one time with the girl I'm trying to get with right now. We were standing next to eachother real close, looking at eachother with our heads turned facing the same direction as we were getting ready to close the store and leave work. I was staring into each other's eyes while we were talking about something random, and I just looked over her face, and she noticed I looked at her lips and noticed it was cracked and chapped. She said it was bothering her. I just won't forget that moment, because of how it felt to be standing there looking into her eyes like that. I just felt the connection.
aw something similar happend with me and him this was a few months ago. I spoke to him before class we were standing side by side then I turned to face him but was like towards his shoulder then he turned my way. We were talking and standing quite close as he was listening to me he started standing straighter and lifted his arms or something then I noticed he was leaning in. Then he started smiling a little when I asked him something and I realised we were talking so close and I looked away quickly then looked back. (that was only like our 3rd conversation) hes spoken to a few of my friends before ones a girl hes never done anything like that and its only when he wants to know about something. I've seen her talk to him and he kept his distance and was kinda giving her a serious look. Earlier this week we were told we might have to do one extra class he was ok with it wanted it but she didn't an was moaning then called his name to say something to him and he just gave her a look then ignored her . I need to speak to him more.
She's done other things to indicate she's into me. We've gone to lunch and she's done special things that she didn't have to do. I just remember that one moment because of how special it felt.