Rex
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- Joined
- Jul 28, 2010
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
You live in SFP-Land, Komið til NTJ land!
Hehe. I think its the other way around.
Remember: We got the money, you got the loans. Just like me and K.
You live in SFP-Land, Komið til NTJ land!
oh my.. thanks for the previous input then.
Tomorrow im planing to do a harsh/rough confrontation with K. But im not sure about the order of importance on the questions.
Edit:here goes:I wanna help her... shit, thats hard to say....
Dude, SFPs are the devil's mousetraps (in the context of dating).
They're cute, lovable, innocent, attractive, and they will SUCK YOU IN.
Its like nothing I've ever seen.
They will lure you in with their soft-spoken voice and their lovable cute personality. If you are dating an ISFP/ESFP for the first time - you are a small fish nibbling on really tasty bait. When you get hooked, then you realize you got played.
NT + SPF = CONFUSION
You are confused, my man. She probably seems like she's really into you - but you don't know what is really going on! You're NT side wants to jump to conclusions - Where does the relationship stand? How far can this go? What will happen in the future?
And her SF side screams - I don't know!
SFPs are shoppers, not buyers.
You go into the market knowing exactly what you are looking for, she goes in to find what's on the shelves.
I have plenty of experience with SFPs and SFJs. Don't go down that road
And I have nothing bad to say about them in general, it's just that I've mistaken their extreme "niceness" towards me for genuine interest.
There is no genuine interest, for the long term.
Confusion, confusion, confusion.
Trust me - its bait, not the real thing.
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Besta konur á jörðinni, ofan à heiminum á Ãslandi! Hahahahah
Haha this is true to some extent. With ISFP's it's almost nearly impossible to tell if there is genuine interest. You have to be very perceptive in order to tell.
Unless you want her as a fuckbuddy, make a sharp U-Turn and go for someone your own type before you crash into a wall.
That reminds me. Is detachment from sex mostly a guy thing or are there certain types that tend toward it. Me and my gf actually have an open relationship and things are great (although i don't know her type). Hmm.
I honestly don't understand open relationships since they directly contravene human nature.
A love relationship is constituted of a psychological "agreement" between mates to only act or do certain things exclusively between themselves.
If you have sex with other women, and your girlfriend is perfectly okay with that - I don't think she falls under the definition of "your girlfriend"
Unless of course, the world has turned up side down.
Thats where my analytical popped in. Why don't i like seeing her with someone else? She has been with people before me, after me and might be again. The difference now? I could lose her. But i have done that. And stole her back. I trust no one more, other than myself. *shrug*
Edit: We also have rules. Don't care who you are out with, as long as you come home to 'me'. I don't want to meet him or know him. She wants me to introduce her to the girls i meet. Yeah, shes bi.
Thats where my analytical popped in. Why don't i like seeing her with someone else? She has been with people before me, after me and might be again. The difference now? I could lose her. But i have done that. And stole her back. I trust no one more, other than myself. *shrug*
Edit: We also have rules. Don't care who you are out with, as long as you come home to 'me'. I don't want to meet him or know him. She wants me to introduce her to the girls i meet. Yeah, shes bi.