Awwwwww, that's cute.
a man from my partner company began to tell me all about the linguistic basis of some british sayings.
Heh, when I do that, I am always so excited to see different angles and find new pieces that might fit together that I get quite excited and intense.
Wonder where the "calm" impression comes from.
We INTJ types do a wonderful job of expressing our emotions intellectually. That may be the best way for other personality types to understand how we express our many feelings. Just because it may be abstract does not make it any less real for us.
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Do other enfps notice that Ni feels calming? Maybe cause I use so much Ne, but I am distinctly calmed by Ni.
I am stuck in the netherlands and was planning to work in my room. But on the return from work, a man from my partner company began to tell me all about the linguistic basis of some british sayings.
My brain just slowed down. I didn't really need to talk, I just listened and absorbed cadence.
I decided to go to dinner just so I can listen more.
Ni is refreshing and seems to serve as a focal point for Ne.
Yeah, it's definitely more of an intensity than a calmness when we do that.Heh, when I do that, I am always so excited to see different angles and find new pieces that might fit together that I get quite excited and intense.
Wonder where the "calm" impression comes from.
Yeah, I'm totally like that. I usually try to just keep my mouth shut, however. Only a small fraction of the universe wants to hear me pontificate. A somewhat larger fraction of the universe wants to dance with me.I dunno. Every INTJ I have ever met loves to teach-meaning share the info they know-which I adore but others find pedantic. Whatever they know about they like to share with you in a teacher-pupil style interaction. It seems to make them really happy, yet totally click into Ni land. I will often settle down in a chair and just absorb knowledge.
My dad-ish person is a pastor at his church and he can be very TeSe feeling when he preaches, kinda intense but full of caring. I dont get Ni calm when he does this, perhaps due to the atheist streak of mine, but when we sit and gives me career advice I can sort of feel it. Or when he gives me in depth expanations of why different nuclear power plants had different issues.
But yeah, when they do this they kinda seem happy about it?? Maybe INTJ "excited" is actually ENFP "sedated"?
Yeah, I'm totally like that. I usually try to just keep my mouth shut, however. Only a small fraction of the universe wants to hear me pontificate. A somewhat larger fraction of the universe wants to dance with me.
Interesting. So interesting. I cannot get over how interesting...I think it's the mutual fascination thing. The way the MBTI works out, we tend to invoke each other's tertiary in a good way. Perhaps INTJ is naturally attracted to mature Fi, and ENFP is attracted to mature Te, that each respects and learns from the other. It's just not as obvious that the INTJ is "learning Fi", since it isn't a typical teacher-student scenario, but a learn-by-example scenario.
To continue on this topic-
Do other enfps notice that Ni feels calming? Maybe cause I use so much Ne, but I am distinctly calmed by Ni.
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I think it's easier to bond with an F relationship wise (you take less of a chance with your feelings), but I'm not sure that means it's the best choice.
Yeah I should have said "it seems like" maybe? It's not that you actually do, it just seems it.