evilrobot
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- 5w4
Which is why you complement it with mutual Te commitment and intellectual interaction. Dont be a quitter! ENFPs are flighty and absent minded, but you just need to bluntly remind them you are there and we will hold onto you as our foundation and drag you out into the world-just a bit.
Tremendous patience on the INTJ’s part is often essential, that’s a given.
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Another thing to consider is that ENFPs want to be everyone’s best friend. This can be a plus if it gives the INTJ the requisite private time, but a negative if the ENFP constantly tries to drag the INTJ along to parties and social scenes.