INCLUSION: Who is IN or OUT of the relationship
Melancholy - Everyone OUT, except for "Exclusive Club"
Sanguine - Everybody "IN" ("Come on in!")
Choleric - Don't call me; I'll call you; until then, OUT! (except for "Exclusive Club")
Supine - Everybody IN; but you must reach out and invite me!
Phlegmatic - "Take 'em or leave 'em"
CONTROL: Who maintains the POWER and makes the DECISIONS for the relationship
Melancholy - "I don't control you, so please don't try to control me"
Sanguine - Controls or being controlled according to "SWING"
Choleric - "I'M the Boss!"
Supine - "YOU'RE the Boss!"
Phlegmatic - Democratic; "Let's all be Boss!"