im an infp and have been friends with an estp (definitely estp) for almost a year now but we have known each other three years before. he was funny popular guy and i was (still is) loner quiet girl. he used to stare at me for ages before and after we became friends + it kinda freaked me out
when i caught him staring he looked at the ceiling nervously or just carried on staring at me until i looked away. most of the year it was hard being friends because people didn't like popular and unpopular people talking. but he was always a loyal friend to me, never bullied me even though all his friends did it, sat next to me on the bus, even remembered my birthday.
but now we are in our last year of school he is acting differently. on our first day back i was asked a question in class and he started laughing at me really loud and hysterically before i even answered?! (btw im a walking joke at school for poor grades and extreme shyness, im an easy target so when i am asked a question people snigger and laugh). i got the answer wrong because this estps laugh was so eratic it threw my concentration and hurt my feelings. than everyone else laughed too.
then i thought i was being hypersensitive and just ignored it. but he hasn't spoken to me the whole week or anything like we were never friends. any estps remember when they were at school? would you have given in to peer pressure like that. my friend never did give into peer pressure before for a whole year so why start now?
and whats with the constant staring do estps just like to stare. he stares at me alot in classes its very very uncomfortable especially as we are not talking anymore. his head is nervously looking around the room like a squirrel or like hes running from the police?.. but hes always glancing at me? he doesn't want to be my friend anymore but he's staring at me (he meant alot because i only have a hand full of friends).
are estps loyal friends?
i made him take the test loads of times and he came up as estp every time but he's not acting like one. i thought estps were loyal friends, didn't care what people thought? or am i wrong? it seems like he wants to be friends again or should i just move on from our friendship