PinkIceTD
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- Aug 9, 2008
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- ENFP
I think there is a communication error here. Direct and blunt does not mean without emotion or consideration. I am saying, you will know where you stand with me. There will be no confusion. My words and actions will match. With him, who I adore/admire/respect I get words that do not match his actions. If you take note...in these threads, there is a lot of confusion by those who care for istj's because of the signs/words/actions...or lack of them. I relate on a lot of levels, however you will never wonder if I care about you or not. ISTJ's seem to veil that, leaving a lot of confusion.
That makes it very difficult to build a bridge...no matter how badly I desire to do so.
You said it perfectly. The words and actions must match for the message to be clear that's like saying "go away" while pulling me closer.