Here's the scenario: INFJ girl writes ENTP man. Both meet and start several year relationship. INFJ not in love with ENTP. ENTP in love with INFJ. INFJ manipulates the cr*p out of the ENTP's emotions and ENTP let's her because he didn't want to play games with the INFJ because he knows that can mess an INFJ up.
INFJ tests ENTP too much. ENTP distances himself to protect emotions. INFJ asks ENTP to open up, describes him as cold. ENTP tries his hardest and is able after so long to express his love for her but by this time INFJ has concluded it would have worked by now and has met someone else, makes it known to the loyal ENTP, ENTP feels crushed.
INFJ and ENTP both cry together over their hurt. INFJ sees that the ENTP really does love her. One is conflicted the other heartbroken. INFJ claims her new bf is 'perfection'. Crushes ENTP more. ENTP feels 'played'. Hard.
ENTP then thinks he should have played push pull with the INFJ, and decides to get as much distance from the INFJ as much as possible. Refuses to think about,
call, see INFJ at all. INFJ still likes to do stuff with ENTP.
Both were very attracted to each other but since the ENTP always showed his cards he let his soul get toyed with.
ENTP having gone to complete silence, how do you think the whole thing will play out? Any ideas?
(an ENTP here who loves theorizing, of course).
Ohh and there are No wrong answers (: