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    Default Female ENTJ + ENTJ/ ESTJ?

    (Disclaimer : I know that matches according MBTI types is vague and unreliable most of the time, but why not keep the possibility open? : ] )

    I was googling female ENTJ and there's this one site that listed different compatible types for male and female ENTJs. The male has 3-4 more options (including the NFs), while for female ENTJ the (most?) compatible matches is either another ENTJ or an ESTJ. I haven't heard of such suggestion before and find it intriguing.

    Do you agree? Disagree? Think it's suicidal/ masochistic?

    Should be outlawed for it'd jeopardize the community's safety?

    As far as I can tell, it could be.. volatile. But that might not be a bad thing. ; )
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    My dad's an ENTJ and I can say, without equivocation, there isn't another man on the planet I despise as much. I wouldn't dream of trying to have a relationship with another ENTJ. Love the INTs and NTPs, but ENTJ males are just too much for me. Two big stubborn steamrollers in one relationship is one too many.

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    I've heard NFs can work with some maturity on both sides. Especially helps if they're working in somewhat of a similar direction in life.
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    Where's the site? What's the author's justification?

    The fact that the site's opened up several more possibilities for the male ENTJ suggests he is making assumptions of the female ENTJ and appropriate gender roles. I'd be interested to hear his reasoning.

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    This got me thinking... What about two gay ENTJs/ESTJs? What the heck would that be? With the whole gender roles thing etc playing in.
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    This got me thinking... What about two gay ENTJs/ESTJs? What the heck would that be? With the whole gender roles thing etc playing in.
    You'd have the same problem. It's not just a gender/culture problem. It's a difficulty that arises when two very strong, unyielding personalities are caught under the same roof. Two captains at the helm leave you with no crew and a rapidly sinking vessel.

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    "They call me Skippy, the one man crew. No passengers allowed!"

    Wow, no wonder I'm single...
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    i keep thinking ENTJs are raging beasts that need taming. i want to try one just for the ride. i also think they hold a lot of temperament/passion that they just don't show often enough.
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    I don't rage. I just get shit done. Usually very quietly and deliberately. If you get in my way, you may find yourself in an unpleasant position, but I never rage.

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    I've actually wondered about ENTJ-ENTJ pairing also... on one hand, its tempting to think about being with someone who really 'gets' you, as well as someone you can admire (HARD TO FIND! - presumably, an ENTJ would share common values and a similar commitment to living life both responsibly and to the fullest).

    As a guy, however, I feel like I'm intense enough for an entire truck load of individuals. I'd like to think of my home as a refuge - away from the madding crowds, my own personal oasis. I think I need someone who can help me redirect my energies into more laid-back and light-hearted perspectives, and a female ENTJ might simply be unable to do so.

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    So in a nutshell, I have to admit I have no idea what MBTI or KTS type would be the right fit. I just know that SJs are completely out, and INTJs would probably be a nightmare. I've had fulfilling relationships with an I/ENFP and an I/ESFP - but both had their problems too, especially the latter.

    Over time, I find myself getting more and more disillusioned with S types, since there seems to be a real barrier with regards to visibility/ understanding. At the same time, I am wary of Fs - so does that only leave NTs?

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