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    What is the best way to really understand an INFJ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GZA View Post
    What is the best way to really understand an INFJ?
    Ask us to explain ourselves? And be willing to wait a long while for the answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by toonia View Post
    "You cloud things up"

    INFJ's are considered the most abstract type.
    Thanks for that link Toonia. A very interesting and resonating article. The second to the last paragraph was quite helpful.

    "You are TOO sensitive."

    "I don't know anyone like you."

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    " Just leave it alone already "
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    Hahahaa, I agree to all. Especially, "Why am I telling you this? I don't even know you?"

    "You're so easy to talk to. It's like I've known you forever."

    "You are delirious." Well, yea. I am ^_^

    "What are you?" or "What the hell are you?" usually from people who are familiars.

    "You're so weird."

    "I don't understand you..."

    And yea, Kiddo. I'm both uptight AND wishy washy AND fun and zaney and psychic and....the list goes on

    Oh another fav! You're not as stuck up/snobby/cold/+hearted as I thought you were!

    Ah the dreaded... "Where did you go? Why don't you talk to me/us anymore?"

    Ah, another! "You're so calm/quiet." <--- yes, I mostly am in RL

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    Quote Originally Posted by nightning View Post
    Ask us to explain ourselves? And be willing to wait a long while for the answer.
    Definitely. Also, when asking be gentle and genuine. If you include accusations or an angry tone with your questions, even slightly, they will be reluctant to let you in.
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    My INFJ is usually found staring off into space.

    He calls it "imaginating."

    I support him in doing this because it makes him happy.
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    I just want to open up the doors here to get us all talking about how INFJ's think, what makes them happy, what makes them sad, what makes them feel appreciated, how to give them the space they need and when to give them support, ect.

    This thread lacks discussion on the INFJ thinking process. I just want to understand and get to know you guys!

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    People really tell you all of that, guys ?

    Me, all I get is:

    "You're nice"

    "You're smart"

    and

    "Yes, that's it!" after I intuitively manage to explain what they feel/think but can't explain.

    Edit: I forgot "You're funny", but that's because I'm so shy/self-conscious IRL that the only way I know to relate to people when I'm not in Teacher/Counselor mode or downright silent is through making people laugh

    But then, I don't really *talk* to people about *me* IRL. I mean, some people know me so badly that I've been called "down-to-earth" by some people who didn't realise that just because something I said was very sensical and practical doesn't mean I ever actually DO it

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    Quote Originally Posted by GZA View Post
    This thread lacks discussion on the INFJ thinking process. I just want to understand and get to know you guys!
    Yeah me to, my other half is a IXFJ. I'd love to understand him better.

    He gets all those comments to!

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