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    Default INFJ and dating: mysterious or charming?

    INFJ are known to be attracted to the mysterious. Yet on one thread here most INFJ answered they find the ENFP most attractive. So what attracts you more in terms of dating: The mysterious type (say INTJ or so) or the charming type (ENFP etc.)?

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    I think you might be missing an option...the option where ENFPs can be quite mysterious themselves
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    Yes. ENFPs can be quite mysterious.

    ....and it's not like I am being mysterious on purpose...but that's another story for another thread....

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    I think every type can be mysterious depending on the angle you are viewing them. I told an ENTX friend once that I loved how mysterious he was. He looked at me with a "huh?" face and said, what are you talking about? I say whatever is on my mind when I think it, I am quite possibly one of the most opinionated people I know, and I don't sugar coat it when I speak to most people.... Where's the mystery!?! I responded with, how you do it!

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    ^ I can sooo see that convo taking place, lol
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    Dude I love a good mysterious girl! Its one of me favorite qualities for the initial flirty phase
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    mysterious and charming usually go hand in hand. ENFPs and INTJs are both known for both these qualities
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    Wait, are you asking if INFJs like INTJs or ENFPs more?

    I would say it depends on the INFJ.

    And we all KNOW the world revolves around ENFPs and INTJs.

    The rest of the forum is really gonna start to hate us at this rate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    mysterious and charming usually go hand in hand. ENFPs and INTJs are both known for both these qualities
    <-- I really did that when I read that post, honest! *wipes away tears*

    I'm off to find me the unicorn known as the charming INTJ!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmie Dearest View Post
    Wait, are you asking if INFJs like INTJs or ENFPs more?

    I would say it depends on the INFJ.

    And we all KNOW the world revolves around ENFPs and INTJs.

    The rest of the forum is really gonna start to hate us at this rate.
    they already do
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