Don't get me wrong, these days I don't work that way anymore. But that's coz I learned that others didn't view things that way. That took me coming here, to realize that. Also, if I know you well, and you criticize stuff that harshly, it may bother me yes, coz you're tearing down someone elses work while not contributing yourself, but I'll shrug it off, coz I know how you work and understand somewhat where you come from. That means I won't get insecure like that about 'us'.
Also, doing the criticizing thing is fine, as long as you do show appreciation on occasion as well. It's the mindset that bothers me. It tells me that your outlook on life is likely to be the 'half-empty glass' instead of the 'half-full' one. And if you're this negative about everything, it's draining on me. I don't have a need for that to be near me. Especially coz I know you're unlikely to be interested in doing something about it, nor should I force you to want to. But no offense, that to me is emotional energy I could be using elsewhere. If I make an effort to tell you the good things about the movie, and you refuse to acknowledge them and trash it some more and this is typically what you do with everything, I'm going to roll my eyes at you and stay away from you. I might still like you, but you're too draining to me and I have to bite my tongue too much in order not to get sucked in by that kind of draining negativity. Not fun.
Edit: I too judge and conclude whether a movie is for me or not. And I will tell you if I don't like it. But I'll also add something that shows that although it might not have been my kind of movie, I can see it appealing to others. If you loved the movie and I rolled my eyes at it, I'll tease you about how lame you are etc, but ultimately, I'll respect your opinion. I'm acutely aware that I'm just one person and others may appreciate what I consider trash. And I consider it incredibly arrogant to fully trash something that someone else might've loved. Who am I to say what is trash and what isn't? I do admit that this attitude has most likely been heavily influenced by the way I grew up as well as the group of friends I'm part of. So take it with a grain of salt.