Kalach
Filthy Apes!
- Joined
- Dec 3, 2008
- Messages
- 4,310
- MBTI Type
- INTJ
i have an ENTJ friend with a pretty turbulent past. i sometimes try to ask her, but for the life of her she can't/doesn't want to "let it out". it seems like she has no regard whatsoever for feeling because she can't understand it properly - even her own. i don't usually worry about people, but i reckon she'll have a breakdown soon if it isn't let out.
Every time I talk about this topic I feel like I'm undermining ENTJ strength. Asking them to back up, away from their relief function, Se, taking action. How does one take action about past events? See, for me, it's sort of obvious, I talk something over--cuz I'm used to sitting around and thinking a lot before taking any action--and it clarifies my involvement in what to do next. But that suits my preferred function order, Fi before Se.
WW(INFP)D? Be an exemplar? ENTJ like progress and taking action. INFP wants to get something done and has a whole long thing of feeling first. ENTJ gets involved and works it out as the project goes along? Little piece by little piece, not as a whole, rushed, uncontrolled flood?
Dunno.