Sorry about that.
No need, and I apologize if I came off as being rude or abrasive there. I don't know if it's the jump in testosterone because I'm working out a lot now, but I'm finding generally that I'm getting more aggressive and impatient as of late. I don't know.
Either way, I'm sorry if I came off as an ass
Hmm, I think I get what you're saying. But how would you sometimes hear that distant voice in an example?
Well, think of it as like this nagging...thing...that's in the back of your mind when you find yourself in a situation. It's like there's this barely distillable voice or feeling in the back of my head when I'm in a situation and unless I'm cool headed or relaxed, I have *no* chance of hearing that voice.
I hope that made sense. Abstract expression is one of my weaker points
Hahahaha gotta love NTs.
As earlier, I hope I didn't come off as saying, "I HATE NT's!!" I know a few NTs that I get along with great.
It's just, of any type, they are the ones that seem to have the easiest time pissing me off
Aww, that's a good way to view it (this is why I love ISJs
). I guess this is where we differ. I'm constantly thinking about the future, where I'll be, what kind of people will be at my side, what I'll be doing, and so on. Sometimes I worry that the things I want won't be there or things I don't want
will be there. But that worrying inspires me to actively go out and try to...well...do the bolded! Maybe inspire isn't the best word, but I want to live with no regrets. I'm sure most people don't. There always will be, but I wanna look back at the end of the day and at least say I gave it a shot.
I understand that feeling completely. I get that way sometimes too.
I guess what pulls me out of that ending cycle of doubt and uncertainly is the knowledge if I don't get up and do something
now then
nothing will get done. It's a feedback loop that never ends until YOU decide to make it end.
Hmm. So what kinds of examples would you have for both? You mean things like who's doing the cooking, if the bills are being paid, and that stuff for you? Sorry for such a broad question.
Quite alright, I'll do my best.
I think either or are unite capable of the basic tasks of daily life. I think a good example might be that I would be interested that Richard Dawkins might be speaking that night at an event and an intuitive might be more concerned with whether he's discussing atheism or biology. Not that I wouldn't be interested in either subject matter, but meeting Dr. Dawkins would be more interesting to me would be FAR more interesting than discussing atheism or biology.
Again...I'm painting a broad brush and I'm sure that this isn't always the case. But it's been my general observation. I suspect this is why a lot of Intuitive's can perceive us Sensors as being shallow, which is unfair but understandable.
I see. So would you say, if you and an N were both approached by someone at the same time it would go certain ways for the both of you?
Quite likely but I suspect this has less to do with the difference between N's and S's and more to do with a myriad of other factors.
Like, you might go out with them because you think the person seems nice, attractive, and so on and the N might go out with them because they seem like someone things could work out with in the long-run, or someone they'd want to do various activities with? I dunno, a lot of mental chatter is going on in my head right now ahh! This is very interesting to learn about though haha.
Something like that. Whether I have a future with them is very important to me but when I first meet a potential partner the first things I look for are chemistry, whether we can talk to each other, and compatibility. Beyond that, I don't really tend to worry about "Is there a future here? What's their career choice?" and other such things that I feel are really malleable and prone to change. Focus on the fundamentals and work out the rest.
Of course, I'm single now, so there is a good possibility I may need to reevaluate how I approach relationships
Aww, don't envy! You're an ISFJ - everything about ISFJs are just great.
But that's interesting though. Thanks for the reply!
Quite welcome, and thank you for the kind words, that's very sweet of you
But no, I don't think there is anything wrong with acknowledging my blind spots and admiring the people around me who excel in those areas. Gives me inspiration and something to work for!