I've experienced a fair amount of trauma and manage to have a pretty functional and happy life, but I don't think I bounce back super-quick and things that I can't resolve can preoccupy me for quite awhile. I don't ask 'Why me?' This planet is full of tragic happenings and I'm not some special person who should be exempt from the human condition. I do ask 'How can I fix this or prevent it from happening in the future?' and 'How can I help others who are having this experience/How can I help prevent other people from going through this?'