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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Wait... I thought one-to-one preference was an Sx thing? o_O
    I've never felt that was a good indicator of anything on its own. A lot of people find talking in group settings stressful and prefer to talk to people one at a time - doesn't mean they have a dominant sexual instinct, they're just nervous with more than one set of eyes on them.

    A dominant sexual instinct leads to an inflated preoccupation with things like intimacy, allure, "merging", significant others - if you don't have that inflated preoccupation in your everyday life, you don't have a dominant sexual instinct. See how easy this is once you wipe away all the bullshit?
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    Also, it can be rather difficult to focus on and observe 10 different people in a room as opposed to one. I view it as information overload trying to observe the dynamics between multiple people for too long. That's why I am SP/SO not SX.

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    Well, I think I can rule out Sx for my variant. That makes me either So/Sp or Sp/So. I relate a lot to the Sp/So's, so that's probably my variant, but I'd like to see some responses from So/Sp's as well, if there are any.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VagrantFarce View Post
    A dominant sexual instinct leads to an inflated preoccupation with things like intimacy
    Well, this is hard to say. I've always longed for an intimate, romantic relationship with a lovely girl, but I've never experienced what it really is and I can't say for sure that that is what I'm looking for. I think it sounds nice, though.

    allure
    Wait, allure in oneself, or allure in others? Because while I do care about how I come across and look to others, I don't do too much to make myself particularly attractive. I do appreciate beauty very much though, if that has anything to do with that, haha.

    "merging"
    What do you mean by this?

    significant others
    Most definitely. I value that, and good friendships, more than anything else in life.

    [I]f you don't have that inflated preoccupation in your everyday life, you don't have a dominant sexual instinct. See how easy this is once you wipe away all the bullshit?
    Is what I told you a sufficient indicator of whether I am Sx type or not?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Wait, allure in oneself, or allure in others? Because while I do care about how I come across and look to others, I don't do too much to make myself particularly attractive. I do appreciate beauty very much though, if that has anything to do with that, haha.
    Allure as in being attractive, sexy etc. The peacock revealing its feathers.

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    What do you mean by this?
    Merging with another person, the second half of a whole.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Is what I told you a sufficient indicator of whether I am Sx type or not?
    If you don't know, then I certainly won't! What are you preoccupied with?
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    Quote Originally Posted by VagrantFarce View Post
    Allure as in being attractive, sexy etc. The peacock revealing its feathers.
    So what does what I told you indicate in that regard?

    Merging with another person, the second half of a whole.
    Yeah, I know, but what does that mean exactly? I'm more of a literal person and can't see underlying meaning very well. Do you mean just being with a significant other?

    If you don't know, then I certainly won't! What are you preoccupied with?
    I am preoccupied with daydreaming of being with my dream girl, being and talking with my buddies/friends, looking into and doing things that interest me, and other monotonous details in the day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    So what does what I told you indicate in that regard?
    Lol, I don't see much - how big are your feathers?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Yeah, I know, but what does that mean exactly? I'm more of a literal person and can't see underlying meaning very well. Do you mean just being with a significant other?
    No, not just "being" with another person - as in the two of you becoming one, forming a union - "soul mates" etc. If you can't understand it on that level, then I don't know what else to say - listen to a few love songs for god's sake. :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by VagrantFarce View Post
    Lol, I don't see much - how big are your feathers?
    I take that as a no?

    No, not just "being" with another person - as in the two of you becoming one, forming a union - "soul mates" etc. If you can't understand it on that level, then I don't know what else to say - listen to a few love songs for god's sake. :P
    You mean like when two people fall in love? That's essentially what I was meaning.
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    "Merging" as in wanting deep connections with others... like desiring to be on the same wavelength, building rapport with others... it's not necessarily just romantic relationships but relationships in general.

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    I don't think you have to be an Sx to have the desire for merging, intimacy, and finding your soul mate. I very much want those things, yet I'm fairly certain I'm Sx last. I decided that because I when I talk with my friends, I don't really approach it like an Sx would by trying to find out everything about that person and exchange intimate secrets. I mostly do it to be friendly and maintain relationships. I think that is the one of the main differences between Sx and So.

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