I've been involved with four women:
1) First one was an ENFJ. I would have probably married her if it hadn't been a long distance relationship and neither of us were willing to uproot our lives to make it work. Dated for about 4 years.
2) Second was was an ISTJ. Very short relationship, only a few months. I got drunk and said some things to hurt her feelings and that was apparently all she needed to kick me to the curb. I learned as a drunk I lose both my filter and my ability to care about...well anything, so even if I didn't have GERD I stay away from alcohol now as it makes me brutally honest, not in a fun way
3) Number three was an INFP and....it was something. Last about 2 years. Very passionate and intense at first, but she had a lot of emotional stuff she was unwilling to deal with and I was still young and dumb and didn't know how to handle it so it turned into a spiral of emotional abuse on all sides until she eventually cheated on me and left me. She was toxic as hell...but so was I. Definitely a cannon moment for me as it informed my next relationship. Left me a wreck for a year and half afterwards.
4) Current relationship, and my wife. Her and I have been together for 11 years, will be married for 10 years next February
. She actually got tested as an INFJ but I am of the opinion that she is a n ENFJ given how incredibly extroverted she can be (she literally shuts down if she doesn't have anyone to hang out with or talk too). I love this woman dearly and I hope I can spend the rest of my life with her.
