Jaguar
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Who needs facts, evidence, and "reality" when you have Ni?
You crack me up.
Who needs facts, evidence, and "reality" when you have Ni?
If I had a really bad feeling about the first guy I'd go searching for proof to back that feeling up.
There's got to be a reason for that feeling.
1. Not in this lifetime. I need evidence to support my claims.
2. None, until I do a thorough background search on the applicants.
No, never. I would have to get some kind of tangible proof that he would be a good employee.
The one with the better credentials.
"You've been interviewing candidates for a job.
One of them has all the credentials, and scored the highest on all the company-defined criteria for the job.
Another one of them was pretty good but not in the same league.
You have a sense about the high-scorer, though, that he's bad news, and that the "so-so" one will work out well.
You can't point to anything that's led you to this conclusion, you can't justify your belief, but you have this sense just the same."
1. Do you trust this unjustifiable idea?
2. Which one would you hire?
3. How certain are you of your decision?
Very similar posts.
Yes, with some reservations."You've been interviewing candidates for a job.
One of them has all the credentials, and scored the highest on all the company-defined criteria for the job.
Another one of them was pretty good but not in the same league.
You have a sense about the high-scorer, though, that he's bad news, and that the "so-so" one will work out well.
You can't point to anything that's led you to this conclusion, you can't justify your belief, but you have this sense just the same."
1. Do you trust this unjustifiable idea?
I definitely WOULDN'T hire the high-scorer I got the bad feeling about. He'd be off the table. I'd probably call the "so-so" one back in for another interview in order to feel the vibes again, call up his references for their opinion (if he had any), and ask other people what kind of "feel" they get from him. I mean specifically, I'd say, "aside from the credentials, what was your impression of X as a person?" If other people had a good impression of him too, I'd probably hire him. After all, they're going to have to work with him, and getting an idea of how well they're going to get along with him is important.2. Which one would you hire?
3. How certain are you of your decision?
1. I am the most likely to doubt my Ni when dealing with people and assume that my gut instinct is simply Fi prejudice. However if I am able to at least identify traits in him such as inconsistencies, tone of voice, eye contact, (anything that would satisfy my own need for justification but not the company's) I will trust my instinct.
1. Do you trust this unjustifiable idea?
2. Which one would you hire?
3. How certain are you of your decision?
On one hand, my Ni is good at what it does, and thus I am likely to reach the right conclusion subconsciously before I consciously know the answer (whether this be interpersonally, academically, or otherwise). I've lived for enough years to know that it's not a "gamble" to trust my Ni, it's just what I do and it most often works out.
On the other hand, I am not some goddess, I am human, and I know this. Therefore, when I throw everything I have down on the table and risk, I am conscious that I could be making a big mistake, and occasionally, it has happened. I don't expect perfection out of a common human quality of mine.
My Ni has bailed me out so many times that I have to trust it. The times when problems have cropped up are when I ignore it in favour of the "justifiable".