More like socially recalcitrant. Even when we know what people want or expect us to do socially, we often won't do it because it is "stupid".
At least from my experience, it seems to go beyond that especially with the less self-assured variety. There just seems to be an unintentional obliviousness sometimes. I have had many civil discussions regarding social interactions and dynamics and it didn't completely register with them until after the fact. But at the same time, they can be quite quick to pick up on behavioral patterns.
My Dad still feels guilty about bringing all of us kids too close to some dangerous mountain goats (true story... he brings this up at least once a year and we are all like "Dad, you didn't know...")
He loves you dearly and purely. Not just anyone is allowed that spot in our hearts. If I was in his stead, I'd probably mention the story in a very playful way, put a smile on my daughter's face, hug her, kiss her forehead and state how thankful I am that she was unharmed.
What is your e-type Sacrophagus if you don't mind me asking...as well as your instinctual variants? From everything you say you seem so physically (and verbally) affectionate which is interesting to me merely because I've never seen it. I mean, my dad is super physically affectionate with my Mom but that's it...no one else and I mean no one. He is so loving but doesn't use the common channels of expression...
E-type 8, is what I think, but the way I lead is much different than anyone I have ever met.
I still didn't put my finger on the other components though.
You see, Starry, I've known myself quite well, and that knowledge allowed me to understand others more. The way I see myself is dichotomous.
First mode is the utterly manly man. He's serious, decisive, emanates authority, epic, and infinitely confident. He can cross a high way with complete confidence that all other drivers will stop in respect to his augusteness. He embodies leadership, honor and core masculinity.
Second mode is the maliciously charming man. He's charming, flirty, loving, physical, knows he's the shit and is very passionate. He knows that he always gets what he wants, and does everything unpologetically, with a very light-hearted but prideful smile. He'll graciously take your hand, and as if he stopped the ticks of time, he will gaze into your eyes deep in your soul and read your most intimate thoughts.
These mods come to play according to situations.
I command my surroundings and exact my thoughts with Te, and call upon Ni to allow me a better understanding of the events and clues laying around.
The other bits of my personality are labyrinthine in a way they're mixed together in an unprecedented exquisitely organized entropy. Ergo, I can't relate fully to any E-types no matter what combination there is.
All of us are way more complex than that,and certainly if we're constantly evolving.
Close-minded, think they're always right, narcissistic, dogmatic, illogical, if they're called out on their crap they say "you're misunderstanding me" as a way to shirk off any sort of criticism or responsibility for their actions.
Don't try. Just be yourself, do your thing, and be alert for opportunities.INTJ is one of the hardest classes to play in the early game. However, if you level up social skills in the optional college DLC, it will make things a lot easier. I'm only a quarter-way through on my first INTJ playthrough though. Does anyone here have tips for the romantic relationship mechanics?
INTJ is one of the hardest classes to play in the early game. However, if you level up social skills in the optional college DLC, it will make things a lot easier. I'm only a quarter-way through on my first INTJ playthrough though. Does anyone here have tips for the romantic relationship mechanics?
This is a very real limitation. But there are ways around it. I've been dating an ISFJ for a long time now and she has my number like nobody I've ever seen before. She knows what I'm thinking so invariably when I fail to verbalize my thoughts, what I assume is her Fe will pick up the meaning, intent and even most of the nuances of what I'm trying to say. Communication between us is unusual, I will admit, but it is functional.Hard time communicating - They can have difficulty communicating what is in their mind to others. Sometimes, they are vague and cannot easily express the reasons for the way they think.