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[Type 4] 4s! Do you always sad or moody , or do you have neutral or happy phases?

Siúil a Rúin

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Well everyone has feelings. 4s don't get to be special for that.
This is true, but I'd add that there are numerous ways people can value and process feelings. I've found that the majority of people assume a negative emotion needs to go away, and I think differently. Almost all the people I've ever known try to "teach" me how to get rid of my feelings and their advice is actually useless for me because I have a different approach. I see each emotion as a different color and in the same way I'm not going to work at eradicating blue or purple from my life, I don't see the reason to purge any naturally occurring feeling, even the negative ones. Precious few people agree with this mindset.
 

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No unfortunately I’m a fictional character who is subject to the whims of my author
 
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