It comes automatically. But I do think I can do that detachment stuff pretty decently.
Ok since I already did you but it got deleted Im just going to summarize.
This quote I think speaks to Fi dominance and 9 influence. The fact that your emotional reaction to events is something that you recognize as automatic speaks to a high feeler orientation. The fact that you come off as such an introvert speaks to you either being an IXFP or an IXFJ. Given your age, and the added recognition of being able to afterwards detatch from your automatic feelings to me speaks to Fi over Fe, as with IXFJs, especially younger ones, Ive seen that they tend to have a more... on and off relationship with immediate feelings. It is almost like there is a... a protective layer in that Pi function that sort of diffuses things for a little bit before it is fully allowed to hit. I suppose that is in a lot of ways the difference between F first and F secondary. Even with EXFPs oftentimes, especially when younger, feeling... can be confused because it is secondary to a processing function- IS USED more than is immediately experienced. Almost like a candle lit in a windowless room- F secondary will acknowledge everything else in the room emotionally, try to figure out exactly what is going on, what is changing, and let the scent seep in, and as the scent seeps in more and more it becomes recognized as the source of what their Ne was informing them of. Same SORT of thing with IXFJs. Anyways, the 'immediately' pushes me towards an Fi dominant typing (though if you were obviously extroverted I would consider an Fe dominant typing as I believe they also have the 'immediately' reaction- in a slightly different way but just as reflexively.
The "does the detatchment stuff pretty easily" to me speaks to 9. I mean. Fi dominance and 9 kind of go hand in hand when it comes to this quoted post.
I had a relatively rare opportunity to do something I like earlier today, so some of the excitement is still there right now, but otherwise I'm feeling neutral/ relaxed.
Relaxed. Like I said before, many of your posts ride along the line of appreciating and using words like 'relaxed' and 'calm'. Easy 9 flag. Could be other things- not saying that people who appreciate relaxation are all neccessarily 9s, but in this case, yes, I think so.
Most days I don't really know what I'm doing here, or what I want to do. And I'm not sure what's going on. The atmosphere can be hard to read.
Most discussions that show up on the front page aren't that interesting for me personally. And then there isn't an awful lot of activity. People seem to misunderstand each other in negative ways a lot in certain threads.
I think a forum like this needs to be relaxed. Which it is. A foruming guide would help.
Like I spoke of before, your focus on the atmosphere of the forum... and how it can be hard to read... made me debate between so first and so last for you. While so last would see 'their inability to read the atmosphere' as something frustrating and troubling- and that would be a commonly, but maybe not always verbally acknowledged, felt frustration. So if that is the case I would type you as So last. If its the fact that you find THIS PARTICULAR SITES atmosphere hard to read, because reading atmospheres is something that otherwise comes naturally to you, then I would type you as So first.
But Ill save this more until the end- because now im wondering.
I've been here for 92 days. I browsed it before registering also but I have no numbers for that. My favorite memory was refreshing the forum page and seeing new threads despite none showing up the last time I refreshed, it's kind of cool that threads can appear almost out of nowhere if you like look away for a moment, but at the same time it's unpredictable, new threads are not guaranteed. I think something that helped make it my favorite was that it gave me the feeling that others are around around the same time that I am. There are other good memories too. I want to see more nice threads in the future. I haven't really thought anything like "I wish the forum had x" before. This site seems to be relatively broad, there are some seemingly fun features/ areas which I haven't checked out yet. Another forum I was on has a shoutbox. I think it would be interesting to see one here too I guess. Also besides new threads it's nice if there are more people joining too and new things happening. My reason to be here must be to experience new stuff. Now that I think of it, something I would want to see is something unexpected, like the site's background drastically changing appearence one day. It would be very memorable and would make me happy and also if this kind of thread is made next year I'd be able to write about that, life would be a little bit easier then.
Lots of Ne and Si in this post. It sprawls out in a relatively Ne secondary Si tertiary way. You are fleshing out ideas without really addressing a larger audience- or even super acknowledging a larger audience. This is all very very internal- sort of underlining the difference between what I said about Stigmatas Ji/Je- where he fully dives down the Ji rabbit hole, sucking all the juice out of an idea- every nook and cranny in a very Ji way, but then pulls it all together and externalizes it in the direction of an external audience- Je; and you where you are at the same time being crushed by a relentless storm of externalized perception, and are, for yourself, trying to make sense of that information by balancing it out with a weaker internal perception. The "Tools" of your aux and tert functions expand upon your primary Ji function, but because Je is your last function- most of your "tool functions" information gets internalized- meaning you can understand it- but without Je as a higer order function- it basically appears as if you are following just rabbit holes.
I got the impression that a lot of people were smiling, I think it's part because the weather was good. It's going up again, temperature and sun. Still somewhat cool.
I'm feeling a bit restless. I sit down a lot. When I start thinking about something more intensely I start walking. It's easier to think while walking. Or maybe it's easier to walk while thinking. Indoors I can only walk in small circles and I feel very limited and shut in. So I went to the park for a bit. There there are larger areas of grass, so I could walk in much larger circles. In the trees there are many small birds, there are some on the ground too. They're very active now and that's nice I think.
I think I'm gonna visit the park every day from now on as long as I have the time.
Si with Ne 'checking in'.
And heres about your instincts. I actually think you are sp/so now. Looking at your focus on things like weather, food, ect- makes me think sp dominance. It would also explain why you might appear or identify as a sensor- sp can appear as such. sp/so is also syn flow, which I gather from your posts, and so second... haha breaks my tie.
Anyways, I type you for now as INFP sp/so 9w8. INFP 9w8 6w7 4w3