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    Default What is my type? - Questionnaire

    Thank you for the questionnaire
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    1. Establish a "baseline mood"--when you're at home with nothing to do, where are you at mentally and emotionally? What do you notice in yourself? (Note, this is not a mood you inhabit "frequently", but your psychological baseline).
    I get anxious when I'm alone, because I remember the emotions I've retained and hidden. Then comes the memories of the past, in my childhood, where I found myself naive. I feel anger, sadness and incomprehension of the people who are around me, and this period of my life I was very fragile.

    2. Describe yourself--
    a. What's it like to be you?
    To be like me is to be quiet and observe what is happening, and to draw conclusions of our own. Follow what you believe and do what is right. At times, be explosive and have unexpected attitudes, like a bomb. Have a sense of guilt, as if my personality was insufficient and small to deal with the world and people. Feeling guilty at times because of the self-awareness of being a better or different person, as if what I have now was not enough and should change.

    b. What have others said about you?
    The others say that I am a temperamental person, with rapid changes of emotions. Organized and systematic, she likes the right things. At times I am cold, as if I do not show emotions. Sarcastic and ironic about things and it makes me be funny. Intelligent and I like to classify people and things. Easy to notice when I'm angry, because I'm sincere in showing when something displeases me.

    c. What do you think of yourself?
    I feel insecure about myself, distrustful of what I feel and what others feel about me (as if someone could take advantage of my feelings) and then I raise my guard to avoid hurting myself, creating a considerable distance between the others and me. I was wrong to think that my relatives (godmother and godfather) liked me and followed their rules, and then I controlled myself to follow what they considered right, and repress many feelings (anger, cry and etc). So I realize that this attitude I had in the past was wrong and hurt my personality and contact with other people.
    I consider myself intelligent but with inner conflict of my feelings, due to the guilt of thinking that I allowed them to hurt me.

    3. You're not good at everything--
    a. What personality traits and/or ways of being are impossible for you to adopt?
    I can not negotiate, do long-term planning, lie to get something or someone, hold grudges or anger for a long time.

    b. What are qualities you'd like to have, but can't seem to develop?
    Being more extroverted, taking life less seriously, having more confidence about what I feel and showing more who I am and what I feel, not hiding.

    4. Why have you left friends and other relationships in the past and/or why have they left you?
    I think I had a dyssynchrony of time, when I started to have a friendship, it ended for no apparent reason. So I started getting used to it, and sometimes I let the others go. At times, it was for fear of deepening and linking the person, so I would fight with the person and move away.

    5. They claim enneagram type is a hidden love need. What are your attitudes toward finding love?
    I realize that I want to love and be loved, but I block it myself. I already fell in love and did not have the relationship, becoming a platonic love. So I felt anger and I do not want to love anyone anymore. I've been with other guys, but I did not continue.
    Right now, I do not want to know about dating.

    6. Determine your ego ideal--the way you strive to be and want others to perceive you. (Note, you may be consciously aware of failing at this, and you will be hard on yourself if you do. If someone else tells you you're NOT this way, it may make you feel hurt, violated, or angry.)
    I want to be a generous, nice, intelligent person who likes to be with people and relaxed. Being happy and feeling that the world can be a good place, that even if we have defeats, we can win.

    7. Determine your "felt sense" of life. To do this it may help to look at how you perceive events. Another way to do this is to look back at your childhood and think of all the things your parents did to you. How did you/do you feel about these events?

    - I feel imperfect, not (good) enough
    - I have been abandoned and I am inherently flawed
    - I have felt weak and/or vulnerable to attack
    - I've had a sense of being rejectible

    I was happy beside my parents, and my godmother took care of me slowly. So when my parents divorced (I was 7), I finally moved in with my godmother and things did not go smooth. She was very controlling and authoritarian, scolding me excessively and making bad comments about me. She said that I was selfish and self-willed to be by her side, that my caresses were to achieve things. Then I began to isolate myself from people and the world, for feeling that I was imperfect and that my love was insufficient for her, I felt anger at it, so angry that I cried alone in my room. My biggest hurt is that the demonstrations of my feelings (caresses, hugs and etc) were like bad attitudes, so I tried to cut it out of my life, trying to become more rational and practical.

    8. Core fears. You may have been aware of these fears even as a very small child, before anyone did anything to influence it. You'd be mortified to be in this position or have others perceive you this way.

    Discuss which fears have played the greatest role in your life:

    - A lot--everything and everyone to one degree or another. It's very generalized.
    I remember little, but I know I thought if I would be able to sustain my life or how I could do those adult things alone

    I took some questions from the quiz to not be repetitive.

    Thank you if you read this far.
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    My guess would be INFP. Not sure about enneagram.
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    @StrawberryBoots

    Unfortunately I have this same self-charging mechanism

    Thanks for the answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ugghh View Post
    My guess would be INFP. Not sure about enneagram.
    Well, the last enneagram test that resulted in type 6.

    Thanks for the answer.

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    @ugghh

    Did you think my answers were repetitive?
    Or could you ask more elaborate questions to find out my type?

    I was afraid to have exaggerated at the same point

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    Quote Originally Posted by stupidgirl View Post
    @StrawberryBoots @ugghh Did you think my answers were repetitive? Or could you ask more elaborate questions to find out my type? I was afraid to have exaggerated at the same point
    I never know what to ask people onlive, irl it's much easier! Maybe you could tell us about why you want to know your type, or what types you think you might be and how you relate to them?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ugghh View Post
    I never know what to ask people onlive, irl it's much easier! Maybe you could tell us about why you want to know your type, or what types you think you might be and how you relate to them?
    I want to know what my type is to stop having doubts about who I am.
    When I was about 15, I became interested in the subject of people's personality and who I might be. I studied various subjects astrology, numerology and I came to the MBTI. MBTI is apparently easy, but there are some things that I did not delve into as functions.
    I remember that my first test was ISTP, but during the journey I went to do other tests and with different results (ISFJ, INFJ and ISTJ)
    ISFJ - my sister and a colleague told me that this could be my profile due to my organization, "way of psychology", serious, emotional, dedicated and tolerant.
    But I consider myself more distant emotionally from people to be Fe-aux. What I mean by this is that I separate the people I like and do not like and do not hide it.
    INFJ - I have had this result in some tests, but I have already met other INFJs and I realize that I am not of that type. INFJ are more abstract and want the why of things and delve into the subjects. I consider myself superfluous.
    INFP - I think it suits me, but I've learned to be practical and less abstract to deal with things. Maybe, if I'm INFP, I've developed the lower functions. IDK

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrawberryBoots View Post
    @stupidgirl,

    I may be reading more into this thread than I should. If you were abused as a child, you first need to understand that it's not your fault. Then, moving forward becomes a matter of mind over matter and choosing not to waste your emotional energy on negative events of your past that you can't change.

    Investing in your positive emotions and your self-esteem will give you a sense of well-being and self-confidence. Maybe that means seeing a therapist about some of the things you mentioned here or maybe achieving health goals, etc.

    One thing's for sure, you can't be a good friend to yourself or others if you're lacking ample amounts of well-being and confidence inside of you, which can affect many areas of your life where relationships are involved; such as work and school.

    As far as your personality type, you come across as stressed and types under stress tend to look like other types.

    It might help us to type you if you would describe how you prefer to make decisions when you're not under stress: fact-based or emotion-based.

    What are your hobbies?

    What is your field of study?

    Do you prefer to work in a team environment or do you prefer to work alone?

    ...things like that.
    Thank you for your advice <3

    Decision making: I am emotional, I make the decision and learn from my experience or observe the experiences of others and make my judgment whether it is right or wrong.

    Hobbies: music,
    I like to draw, play games, walk around the city or beach alone and listen to music

    Field of study: I like subjects related to personality such as astrology, enneagram, MBTI, numerology and etc. I used to like reading self-help books.

    Work: I prefer to work alone, so I decide how I can do things and have more control and make it more correct. I do not like working in groups because I end up stressing the slowness or lack of organization of another person. I'd rather complete my work first and then help other people.

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    @StrawberryBoots

    Thank you for your advice <3

    Decision making: I am emotional, I make the decision and learn from my experience or observe the experiences of others and make my judgment whether it is right or wrong.

    Hobbies: music,
    I like to draw, play games, walk around the city or beach alone and listen to music

    Field of study: I like subjects related to personality such as astrology, enneagram, MBTI, numerology and etc. I used to like reading self-help books.

    Work: I prefer to work alone, so I decide how I can do things and have more control and make it more correct. I do not like working in groups because I end up stressing the slowness or lack of organization of another person. I would rather complete my work first and then help other people.

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    @StrawberryBoots

    You're distrusting of your intuition, which you described as feelings, and I think you're probably confusing the two -What are your thoughts on this notion?
    -To tell you the truth, I had not even noticed that I was doing this.
    I know that I turn small details into exaggerated big pictures, and I think this mistrust is caused by my fear of facing things.
    I realize that in new situations, I retreat first and then act.

    I have to agree that I am ISFP

    Could you tell my type on the enneagram? Or do you think I'm the type 6?
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