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mez

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He doesn't speak English so I can't provide direction communication with. But here's his MBTI cognitive function results + other test results.
If you want to ask any specific questions, I will relay it to him and provide accurate translations. Thanks.

Additional info: he suffers social phobia. He tends to be somewhat okay handling himself in everyday situations, but it comes to him with great effort, as he constantly has to build up courage even for basic interactions.
He tries his best to portray himself visually as a confident, coordinated, smart and elegant person. And that shell looks very convincing, people from a distance often talk of him as a very confident and serious person. But is also extremely easy to break that fake shell, very easy to hurt him and cause him to cry (he never cries because of some very strong sense of "I'm not allowed to cry", but it's easy to see his eyes getting watery, and his voice becoming weak, even if tries his best to hide it). After he understood his facade was broken, he'll quickly withdraw and seek comfort/shelter.
He's never negative. He likes to motivate and inspire people, and views every problem/misfortune as just a heaven-sent challenge to overcome. It doesn't mean he always seeks to overcome it though. But he ultimately blames all failures on himself rather than on others. Before blaming others, he'd firstly blame his own lack of skill, lack of experience, lack of maturity, lack of intelligence, lack of will. He feels perfectly comfortable with calling himself "stupid" or "dumb" or "immature", but still gets really hurt if someone else does that to him. He prefers to turn everything into a joke, because he believes life would be less punishing that way. See the better things, laugh off all hardships, and you'll be less depressed in the end. But he also worries that he's very bad at predicting and properly responding to the emotional needs of other people. He thinks it would be much easier if we could just understand each other without having to show/speak what we feel.

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