Perfectly Imperfect
New member
- Joined
- Sep 1, 2016
- Messages
- 26
- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 962
- Instinctual Variant
- sx
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
The only part of me that I'm sure of is that I'm an introvert or at least someone who highly appreciates silence. I'm pretty sure I'm someone who has high Fi or Fe. That's very obvious as you will see.
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
I yearn to belong somewhere. To connect with something or someone. To find my purpose in this life. Also to make a living out creating things. I'm mulling over going into interior design. I need something that sparks my creativity and pays bills .
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
When I'm being told I did something right or was helpful. I need validation. It's annoying.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
Being criticized or being made fun of. I've never taken harsh criticism well. I'm someone who is very hard on themselves. I've dealt with being made fun of by becoming self-deprecating. Make the joke before they do.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
How I feel about it. Envisioning how things most likely will unfold. I'm someone who goes with my gut instinct. If it feels right, I go with it. I end up regretting not trusting my gut. I've said more than once that I knew what would happen but didn't go with my feeling and it blew up in my face.
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
I like having support, especially if I feel insecure about my skills. I don't care to be in control but I like to know the most likely outcome. I need that security.
7) Describe a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
My childhood was filled with lots of imagination. Anytime I was allowed to go off into my own little world made me happy. I was a lonely child but my imagination rarely left me alone. I have bits of memory but how it made feel burns bright to this day.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you?
Read up a bit but I probably dive right in more than I should.
9) How organized do you think of yourself as?
I'm not the most organized person but I'm far from the worst. I'm like a fine wine, I'm improving with age. I'm becoming more aware of what's around me and noticing things that need to fixed or organized better.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
Take into consideration and look for information and see if it strikes me as right.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
This one is hard to answer because I do both in a way.
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
I prefer one-on-one so much. I'm just more comfortable with that. I usually think before I speak but sometimes the words run out before I can put up the roadblocks. I'm also physically expressive so even if I'm not talking then my face is.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
I like to figure out what will most likely happen before I leap. Words are great but sometimes they end up just being that.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
I'm a homebody so a night out isn't something I would chose to do. I'd thank them for considering me but decline, unless Rami Malek is there.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
I become one judgmental b*tch. There's a lot of deep breathing exercises going on to take the edge of of being uptight.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
People who instigate trouble. People who are too harsh and intentionally cruel can get me in a bad mood very quick.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
I'm more a listener and observer. I love figuring out people's mindset. I keep it to myself a lot. I do get talkative about tv shows and movies. I used to be quite into gossip. I don't talk politics since some of my views are controversial and a bit contradicting. It just makes me and people around me uncomfortable. So I usually keep that on the down low. I may briefly mention it and then move on to another topic.
18) What kind of things do you pay the least attention to in your life?
I don't stay in the present a lot. I'm getting better but it's still a problem. I tend to miss things around me or about me and there is a good chance that I will most likely run into something because I wasn't focused on the here and now.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality?
Intelligent, snarky, creative, opinionated, empathetic, jumps to conclusions. It's hard for me to see the intelligence part. I kind of see myself as a ditz and always struggled in school. They would never say I have a dull personality. I'm a bit too dramatic to be a boring creature.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
I'd go to a fair and win prizes and have fun being silly and free. I'd then go buy some movies and cds. There would be lots of shopping since in this dream scenario I'm not broke . I'd then finish the day catching up with my friends.
The only part of me that I'm sure of is that I'm an introvert or at least someone who highly appreciates silence. I'm pretty sure I'm someone who has high Fi or Fe. That's very obvious as you will see.
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
I yearn to belong somewhere. To connect with something or someone. To find my purpose in this life. Also to make a living out creating things. I'm mulling over going into interior design. I need something that sparks my creativity and pays bills .
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
When I'm being told I did something right or was helpful. I need validation. It's annoying.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
Being criticized or being made fun of. I've never taken harsh criticism well. I'm someone who is very hard on themselves. I've dealt with being made fun of by becoming self-deprecating. Make the joke before they do.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
How I feel about it. Envisioning how things most likely will unfold. I'm someone who goes with my gut instinct. If it feels right, I go with it. I end up regretting not trusting my gut. I've said more than once that I knew what would happen but didn't go with my feeling and it blew up in my face.
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
I like having support, especially if I feel insecure about my skills. I don't care to be in control but I like to know the most likely outcome. I need that security.
7) Describe a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
My childhood was filled with lots of imagination. Anytime I was allowed to go off into my own little world made me happy. I was a lonely child but my imagination rarely left me alone. I have bits of memory but how it made feel burns bright to this day.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you?
Read up a bit but I probably dive right in more than I should.
9) How organized do you think of yourself as?
I'm not the most organized person but I'm far from the worst. I'm like a fine wine, I'm improving with age. I'm becoming more aware of what's around me and noticing things that need to fixed or organized better.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
Take into consideration and look for information and see if it strikes me as right.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
This one is hard to answer because I do both in a way.
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
I prefer one-on-one so much. I'm just more comfortable with that. I usually think before I speak but sometimes the words run out before I can put up the roadblocks. I'm also physically expressive so even if I'm not talking then my face is.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
I like to figure out what will most likely happen before I leap. Words are great but sometimes they end up just being that.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
I'm a homebody so a night out isn't something I would chose to do. I'd thank them for considering me but decline, unless Rami Malek is there.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
I become one judgmental b*tch. There's a lot of deep breathing exercises going on to take the edge of of being uptight.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
People who instigate trouble. People who are too harsh and intentionally cruel can get me in a bad mood very quick.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
I'm more a listener and observer. I love figuring out people's mindset. I keep it to myself a lot. I do get talkative about tv shows and movies. I used to be quite into gossip. I don't talk politics since some of my views are controversial and a bit contradicting. It just makes me and people around me uncomfortable. So I usually keep that on the down low. I may briefly mention it and then move on to another topic.
18) What kind of things do you pay the least attention to in your life?
I don't stay in the present a lot. I'm getting better but it's still a problem. I tend to miss things around me or about me and there is a good chance that I will most likely run into something because I wasn't focused on the here and now.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality?
Intelligent, snarky, creative, opinionated, empathetic, jumps to conclusions. It's hard for me to see the intelligence part. I kind of see myself as a ditz and always struggled in school. They would never say I have a dull personality. I'm a bit too dramatic to be a boring creature.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
I'd go to a fair and win prizes and have fun being silly and free. I'd then go buy some movies and cds. There would be lots of shopping since in this dream scenario I'm not broke . I'd then finish the day catching up with my friends.