kathleen
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- Oct 17, 2016
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
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- 1w2
Hello!
I'm really confused about my type. I don't know wheter I'm an INFJ, INTJ or ISTJ (I know these are opposite and not what makes my job easier...)
Here's some point of my personality that might help you typing me.
- I've always thought I was an INFJ but looking back, I am less intuitive than I thought and I act with logic and often put my feelings aside.
- I want to give meaning to my life, do what I like because I think we have only one life and we should enjoy the moment
- I always listen to my friends when they need me but I feel like I don't really feel involved, as if deep down I don't care. Which sometimes scares me.
Even with my mother, Over time, I have less tolerance with her many problems, as if I was insensitive.
- People often come to me to make decisions because they think I'm very responsible and smart.
- When I have to learn something, I do not synthesize because I'm afraid of missing something, so I study all by heart.
- When I get a bad grades (for example) I'm very hard on myself which makes me a perfectionist.
- When working in a project with other students, I like to have control on everything because I like when it's done my way. When it become chaos, I get angry and panick.
- I'm a very enthusiastic person. I love adventure and traveling and I do not see myself lead a boring life.
- My favourite movie is The dead poets society
- I am interested in the arts, I do theater and dance, BUT, I do not like maths.
- When I face a problem, I can be detached and cool heads
- I tend to make my decisions on logic however I'm always afraid of hurting my family by my choices.
- I often daydream. I have a notebook where I invent a life for me and my friends. I even deduce their MBTI and their Hogwart's houses. I'm a sorting hat somehow.
- I am a very idealistic person and I am part of a humanitarian group that I created
- I do not like conflict, but if I have to face it, I do it without hesitation.
- My hogwarts house is Gryffindor and I identify myelf with Hermione Granger.
- I am obsessed with good grades. Sometimes I wake at 5 just to study. I want to be the best of my class.
- I like movies (sci-fi, fantastic, dramatic), books, tv shows (got) but I dislike horror movies, not because I'm afraid (well sometimes I do ahaha) but because it does not make sense and it can turn to ridicule, without depth.
- One of my best friends typed me as an INFJ and another ISTJ (and she's conviced that I am an ISTJ). This friend thinks I'm a brave, smart and very independant person who doesn't give up easily but that I am reserved and autodestructive.
- She compares me to Belle (disney), Hermione,Clarke Griffin (the 100), Annabeth Chase
- during school, I always ask a concrete example for me to understand the concept, and I prefer step-by-step instructions.
- I'm a very kind and warm person and I motivate other people.
- I tend to analyse EVERYTHING
- When I witness a conflict, I see all points of view, so to me it's hard to take sides.
- I'm 5w6
- I also think my obsession to find my type count in my analysis? ahah
That's all I think. I hope that's enough and that you can help me ( sorry if my english isn't perfect but I'm french)
Good evening
I'm really confused about my type. I don't know wheter I'm an INFJ, INTJ or ISTJ (I know these are opposite and not what makes my job easier...)
Here's some point of my personality that might help you typing me.
- I've always thought I was an INFJ but looking back, I am less intuitive than I thought and I act with logic and often put my feelings aside.
- I want to give meaning to my life, do what I like because I think we have only one life and we should enjoy the moment
- I always listen to my friends when they need me but I feel like I don't really feel involved, as if deep down I don't care. Which sometimes scares me.
Even with my mother, Over time, I have less tolerance with her many problems, as if I was insensitive.
- People often come to me to make decisions because they think I'm very responsible and smart.
- When I have to learn something, I do not synthesize because I'm afraid of missing something, so I study all by heart.
- When I get a bad grades (for example) I'm very hard on myself which makes me a perfectionist.
- When working in a project with other students, I like to have control on everything because I like when it's done my way. When it become chaos, I get angry and panick.
- I'm a very enthusiastic person. I love adventure and traveling and I do not see myself lead a boring life.
- My favourite movie is The dead poets society
- I am interested in the arts, I do theater and dance, BUT, I do not like maths.
- When I face a problem, I can be detached and cool heads
- I tend to make my decisions on logic however I'm always afraid of hurting my family by my choices.
- I often daydream. I have a notebook where I invent a life for me and my friends. I even deduce their MBTI and their Hogwart's houses. I'm a sorting hat somehow.
- I am a very idealistic person and I am part of a humanitarian group that I created
- I do not like conflict, but if I have to face it, I do it without hesitation.
- My hogwarts house is Gryffindor and I identify myelf with Hermione Granger.
- I am obsessed with good grades. Sometimes I wake at 5 just to study. I want to be the best of my class.
- I like movies (sci-fi, fantastic, dramatic), books, tv shows (got) but I dislike horror movies, not because I'm afraid (well sometimes I do ahaha) but because it does not make sense and it can turn to ridicule, without depth.
- One of my best friends typed me as an INFJ and another ISTJ (and she's conviced that I am an ISTJ). This friend thinks I'm a brave, smart and very independant person who doesn't give up easily but that I am reserved and autodestructive.
- She compares me to Belle (disney), Hermione,Clarke Griffin (the 100), Annabeth Chase
- during school, I always ask a concrete example for me to understand the concept, and I prefer step-by-step instructions.
- I'm a very kind and warm person and I motivate other people.
- I tend to analyse EVERYTHING
- When I witness a conflict, I see all points of view, so to me it's hard to take sides.
- I'm 5w6
- I also think my obsession to find my type count in my analysis? ahah
That's all I think. I hope that's enough and that you can help me ( sorry if my english isn't perfect but I'm french)
Good evening