Hello pretty lady!
I noticed the way you used to be interacting in the forum when I first joined was a little different than these days, you used to show more Fe and extroversion, then gradually a reserve and aloof side started to show..
But I still find Fe domain for sure, I would say XNFJ
Vibes to me seem like that's the case.Given that I know very little about you this would be based on (probably inaccurate) vibes. You do seem like an achiever so I think it fits. You seem very goal orientated and even find personal interests in a professional setting (talking about guys you like in the workplace). It indicates to me you spend a lot of time in the workplace and are a goal/task orientated person. Is that your comfort zone?
Maybe you're most afraid of being seen as a 'failure?'
That's alright, I deflect things that are 'too personal' too not because I feel I have to but I just naturally do in the way I conduct myself. What is real substance to you? Because in my view there isn't a particular 'substance' that works universally for everyone especially if enneagram is true. I mostly deflect the personal because I think its boring frankly. Maybe its because I'm not particularly well adept at emotional communication and would rather focus externally outside of myself. In my view how the world actually works and how it can work better is much more interesting than how it makes me feel inside. My substance is thinking about and exploring the world around me and not so much 'me.'
Like, I could never sit down and write a ridiculously long blog/journal about how little things make me feel. I couldn't conjure up the words without getting distracted by something else.
